Need Some Honest Advice From My Network đ
Friends, I donât usually post personal matters here, but today my heart is heavy.
I work away from home because of my IT job, and like many of us who live outside for our careers, the distance often feels heavier when our family is going through something difficult.
Back in my hometown, my parents are currently dealing with a land dispute. The other party involved is quite influential financially strong and politically connected. Being far away, I feel helpless⌠constantly worried about my parentsâ safety and the mental pressure theyâre going through.
Weâre trying to handle everything legally and peacefully, but sometimes standing up for whatâs right becomes tougher when power and money get involved.
If anyone here has faced a similar situation or has guidance on how to navigate such disputes safely and effectively legally, emotionally, or practically your advice would mean a lot.
I just want to ensure my parents are safe and that we resolve this without any harm. Thank you for taking the time to read this. đ
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All though it's always easier to say then do it but u don't jump into this but fight from brain like lord Krishna did in Mahabharata by without jumping in fight, they won it
How any suggestion ?
I don't know if my suggestion helps you, but I think you should involve someone from your family as a mediator who will be dealing peacefully and try to solve the issue with mutual consent between both the parties. A similar case happened with my relative but it resolved peacefully with the help of a family member's interference. Legal and all will give you more trouble and you have to spend time and energy and pay the lawyers fees unnecessarily.
Yes I was thinking same just in that case I might need to lose some land
Ahh... that's painful. But only suggestion is be ready for a very long war. Courts in India are incompetent and will drag 1 month case for 20 years. Literally. Not even a joke. Best way is to stop associating it with fight and just think of it as a ritual that you'll do for next 10 yrsm
Sometime I feel no matter how good you are this world will be led by demon who has money and political connection even if you go to court they will manipulate that too.
Don't worry. Focus on your career. Everything will be Allright.
Thanks bro but it's difficult to focus in such situation
involve a third party known to both try to settle OR file a case and forgot that you own that property 12 to 18 years definitely you will get judgement and by that time land value also gets apprciated . dont involve with any direct conv with opposite party . Or also look for buyer who is ready to buy this even there is dispute .
This is going to be a long journey Buddy! So you have to stay calm and composed. Don't worry. Take one day at a time...
1.Keep checking on your parents,
2.stay informed of all the things which are happening
3.Take leave and be available in person whenever required during this difficult time.
4. Be calm and instead of worrying take action talk to your parents or someone who can help or just do whatever it takes to keep them safe.