
Need help guys.
So, I'm 31M , I had recently started seeing someone and it went on really great for few months and we even met few times. Since we were from different cities, we hadnt met much.. Everything was going well but one fine day the girl said that she doesnt feel anything for me and she doesnt want to continue. It was a bit tough for me to move on from here because I was really attached to her and in love with her. But somehow i moved on or at least i think ive moved on. I recently started talking with someone else. Its just been few days and i like talking to her.. She's a very sweet person.. Everything is fine but i keep getting these thoughts in the back of my mind about the prev person. Like , if I'm talking with this new person about something i get thoughts of talking the same things with the prev person with whom i had connected earlier and that leaves me sad that things didnt work out with her. As much as i really like talking with the new girl, I'm not able to suppress the thoughts which I'm getting about the previous girl. I really don't know how to tackle or overcome this situation. If anyone has any suggestions would be really helpful.

Instead of suppressing your feelings, Why not channel them to the correct person?
With time, everything feels right. It's ok that the other person left. Leave her for good. Wish her well. Live your life.
Delete all her pics, phone number, unfollow her in social media. Out of sight is out of mind.

It's normal to feel this way. It'll reduce with time, once you spend more time with your current partner.

Honestly, you can't make them love you isn't it? So what you must do is treat her with respect. Make her feel special, take her out for dinner or something if possible and leave it to God, if she's the one then it will happen naturally, you won't have to do anything. If it doesn't happen, let it go. It was never meant to be. Just enjoy the time you get to spend with her and cherish every moment. Cheers 🍻

You have to confess the past with the present, it will help you be yourself.