Need genuine advice on my love life, plz drop your suggestion.
Hi everyone,
I have a girlfriend from past one year, mere se pahle she has a relationship with a man for 4 years then they broke up and after months she met with me and our love story started. She is a Virgin with him for 4 years only kisses happened, she also not let me to do physical intimacy only kisses, everything is good last month I got to know from her X that she met with him on regular basis, he drops her home, mere saath rahte hue she had 3 trips with him jiska plan ladki ne hi banaya tha , trips par wo ek room me hi rahe the only four head kiss happened, ek bed par sleep kiye the but pillow is between them. I asked her everything jo bhi usne saal bhar se chupaya tha she said ki wo regular office drop nhi krta tha ,meri tabiyat kharab rahti thi tbhi drop kiya hai, last 1 yr me wo log jitni baar restaurant gye hai usme uska kahna hai ki normally as a friend mile hai and wo apne X ko bol chuki hai wo mere saath future dekhti hai, trips par bhi wo gyi hai to usne kbhi hand touch nhi Kiya, hug,etc kuch nhi Kiya, kbhi usko haath tk lagane nhi diya hai.maine bhi kiss ke alawa usko different places par kiss nd touch Kiya hai but no sex, she always say shaadi ke baad and control her emotions.
Last month me ye baatein pata chal gyi hai she is asking for 1 more chance, I am feeling cheated but ye bhi hai ki usne usko haath nhi lgane diya aur uske saath khatam kr ke rakhna Chati hai isiliye uske X ne mujhe contact Kiya taki mai apne relationship ko khatam kr du ye sb baatein sunne ke baad.
What should I do now ,she is crying asking for another chance, but dar hai ki kya pata phir wo whi kaam na kare becoz I am in bangalore nd she is in hometown, koi dekhne jaa nhi rha hai
Should I leave her? Or give her a chance ,she always say ki mai tmhare saath hi future dekhti hu, i am stuck and plzzzzzzz help
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Leave her bro
- Do u feel emotional connect from her side
- Does she gets restless or upset if she doesnt talk to u ?
- Does talking feel forced ??
- Do u think you would be able to trust her since all these things happened Think about the answers
Yes emotional connect feel hota hai
Yes she gets upset if doesn't talk to.me
No never feel forced
Isi ka jawab nhi dhoond paa rha hu,ki chance du ya na du
The thing is if u always have this feeling that what is she doing currently is she talking to her ex or some other guy Then u urself wont be able to trust her
Bhai without any single thought chor de nhi to tu chud jaega abhi nhi to shadi ke bad confirm.
Aur agr ye farming post hai to baat hii alg hai
Koi farming post nhi hai bhai,mai apni situation samjha nhi skta ki mai kis state me hu, pyar bhi krta hu and stuck at the same time
Saand ka tan aur raand ka man kabhi nahi bharta. Tera kat chuka hai. Tu chutiya ban chuka hai. The real question is tujhe aur kitne din chutiya ban k rehna hai.
😂😂😂,whi nhi samj aa rha kya kru,😁chota bhai samjh kr advice do bro
Let things go as is. Let her think all is well and things are better. Plan a trip together or something that creates a lot of anticipation. Then block her the day before and never speak to her again.
Embrace toxicity. Join the dark side.
You deserve better. I know it would be tuf but trust me she's not worth it anymore.
If she has done it once, she will do it again.
I've been at the place where you are. I gave her the first chance and trust me then there wasn't any last chance. She kept on doing it again and again because she knew I wyill forgive her. And eventually she decided to marry someone else.
Isliye the advice is to take the stand for yourself and leave her.
If only I could save another guy, I'll be happy.
+1 Leave her for good.
Did she tell why she went on trips with him even after breaking up as a couple?
She said ki X se baat krte hue boli ki mujhe banaras jana hai ,X ne bola ki chalte hai ,then sudden plan ban gya, pure trip me she has maintained distance.
There are red flags everywhere. She shouldn't have maintained connection with her ex. Occasional hi hello on fb is one thing, there were regular meetups and all.
Plus, they went together as a couple, otherwise they could have brought other friends.
And she didn't bother telling you about any of this.
And do you really think she maintained distance while going as a couple with her ex behind her bf's back?
If she can do all this, don't you think she can tell a lie?
Bro, if a person stayed in the same room with their ex. I am 100% sure things unfolded. Maybe not sex as such but anything less than sex did happen. And bro, you may forgive now but will you be able to trust her again? And you can judge me but I have been in this situation as the X. And all of it happens only because she has a comfort of 4 years with that person. One weak moment and things will unfold so quickly.
Apne mann ka sunn bhai idhar log milenge jo situation A ka logic denge aur situation B ko galat bolenge and vice versa but sbka experience same hoga esa jaruri nhi apne instincts ko trust kr at worst tera katega but still woh tere liye lesson hoga jo tere ko apne experience se mila aur future mai tu ye ni sochega ki ku suna kisika aur tb tu regret ki jagah bolega thik h mera choice tha …….
baaki maje kr abhi toh bahut life h
Baaki ladki , train aur bus toh ek jayegi 4 aa jayegi apna inner peace jaruri h
Randiya accept krne lagega toh iske @UnfoldedPupil67 jaisa simp ban jayega. Your life will go down, and you'll become kaam chalane wala type of person.
Bhai tera chutiya kat raha hai