Need Advice on Getting Married — How Do I Find the Right Person?

Never fall for the marriage trap.

First date a girl without thinking about marriage. You will get to know what to look for and what are the red flags based on your first relationship experience.

For sole purpose of marriage, you will need to date a minimum of 6 months and 1-2years to be sure about a person. You will have to do things together so you get to know the person. Let's say, you are in a live in relationship, you will get to know whether she is hygienic or not, does keep her room near or not. Whether she cooks or orders food everyday. Who she talks to like boy besties or anything which is a red flag if she values them much more than you, whether there are arguments about small small things can be a red flag.

After a few months, if you think your life is peaceful with her, it is a green flag and compatible match. Also, how they spend money and value people should be noted. If they splurge money, it's a red flag.

See if both of your financial and career goals align properly. Do a clear background check about family as well. Because life can be a fairy tale for sometime and in this era, if she applies for divorce after few years, your life is ruined forever to pay the alimony. So, she if she respects the bonds and her parents and if her parents will be willing to settle the disputes between you both or are they the kind of people who encourages or something.

You should go on atleast one long trip and see how both of you handle things and you will realise few things one by one.

First of all, get a girl bro 😜

Last year when I turned 25, my dad gave one piece of advice in terms of marriage. He said, marry a girl who is kind and compassionate. Don't give too much priority to looks, profession or her salary. Because you are going to spend entire life with your partner, it is important to have someone who understands, supports you and uplifts you in your bad time. In short my dad suggested to give top most priority to know the nature of the partner, how she is as a human being.

If ur a Man...Work on money... Of ur a girl...Just be beautiful..

It's totally related to fate. It's not in your hand buddy..

Too young to marry for someone at 25. But on a positive note, you have lots of luxury to date and experiment and then decide on it, assuming that caste is not a restriction from parents. Never been in dating->marriage process, so can’t suggest much.

Too much thinking and searching for a right person will lead to disappointments and marriage breakdowns.

I suggest if you have too many criteria’s or check lists don’t get married only.

Always remember marriage is a rejection game. You reject anyone who has even one red flag. If you don’t know what the red flags are hold and first understand them and create their list. Never hurry in a marriage! Laws are very harsh.

Man step 1 is dong hesitate in asking a girl you like. And if you are able to go to step 2 , spend 2 years minimum with her. You will get your answer

Bro a friendly advice and a very common one, find a girl who lives in a big family so could take care of yours as well.......you know the present condition which is going on.