WobblyPancake
WobblyPancake
6mo

Need Advice from Experte

I have been married for 4 years and till today the relationship with my Mother and my Wife is terrible. My mother being a typical indian MIL does and expects certain things which are a strict no from my wife. She loves educating my mom in right and wrong. A recent fight has stopped conversation between them with my my wife completly ignoring my moms texts and call which further provoking my mom considering why she is the one always excusing. My wife wants my mom to learn from her mistake and realize but thats never gona happen. A MIL is a MIL. My mom now hates my wifes family and this disrupts the balance during functions. Im done trying to balance things out with my mom venting about my wife always to me. My wife being little matured avoids talking to her and about her. How do i being a guy here handle such things?

6mo ago
ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

You might have to live separately with your wife in the best interest of both. Maybe somewhere nearby.

WobblyPancake
WobblyPancake

Thank you for that. But i stay 600kms away from my mom. This all happens inspite

PrancingNarwhal
PrancingNarwhal

Bhai adjust toh choton ko krna padta hi hai. Can't expect our parents to also evolve in this age.

At their age we also might be like them.

FloatingCupcake
FloatingCupcake
6mo

The quote-"My Mom being a MIL does and expect certain things which are a strict no from my wife" had me thinking how difficult the life can sometimes become of a man trapped between.. and who could be more wrong.

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