Need a suggestion for a new prespective!
I.) I lv in another state alone, pare ts don't share their troubles even when they get sick. II.) I miss my dogs like hell,they have short life. III) The guy on whom I had crush in childhood is nowhere to be seen. IV. ) The guy I had a crush for past 4 years got married yesterday. V.) The guy who likes me , I can't accept him bcoz of my father's narrow orthodox beliefs. VI.) Doesn't earn much to gv mom a new phone. VII.) Can't hang out with my colleagues bcoz they all have highfi hobbies. Vii.) Literally have zero contacts with classmates nither from school nor college. .......this new well paying job feels worthless.
Thank u 4 reading the rant.
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These feel self created problem, start to love yourself and take small steps suggested by @bantu , you shd be in much better state real soon ,talk to people and reach out to them, don't feel shy
You can start by pinging people from college and school. I have a lot of friends now from school/college whom I had never interacted in school/college. You might come across some of them who are going through similar situations in life as you do. It's very easy to bond while complaining about life.
vi -> who can't afford the phone? Since you said well paying job in the end.
v -> do you like him?
i -> how often do you talk with them? Do you feel homesick?
ii -> can you not bring your parents + dogs to live with you?
I would suggest pursuing some hobbies to focus your mind on. Like running, reading books, traveling if u like, and playing some instruments. Give yourself a little beak. Make some new friends that's all 🙂
Don't worry, things will get better with time.
original state location?