FuzzyBagel
FuzzyBagel
Student

My two cents on dating scenario of India.

I went through some posts, where men posted about failing to never get a partner, and women complaining how cheap men are and it's difficult to find good men. I myself went through this problem and I would like to share my observations, although free to debate.

80% of women date the top 5% of men.

The inheritance ensured men are blessed with strength, resilience and ability to protect. The good looking genes weren't necessary to be passed down, so not everyone was blessed with them.

While women were blessed with ability to nurture, provide care and create life in itself. They were blessed with beauty and warm presence.

Evolution fooled us. The current standards only benefits the top ones, not wrong but we need better platforms for everyone. It isn't wrong because one way or another, everyone is blessed.

The power that ensured men to pursue women, so the nature rules to mate is followed, effects the 95% of men, the system makes sure we survive, our feelings and desires mean nothing. But not every men are supposed to have this power as it can cause destruction for society by crimes.

The power also ensured women pursued better, so their safe and their inherent ability is protected.

In all of this, brother who couldn't find their ones, sisters who couldn't trust now, are left helpless. Even some brothers thinking they don't deserve life or regret being born. It just makes me tear up.

The Y chromosome is shrinking itslef, less men, less suffering for both men and women. Atleast those who will be born, I hope, don't have to go through same soil as us.

All brothers and sisters, wishing care, growth and ample health your way.

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BubblyMarshmallow
BubblyMarshmallow

kya verbal vomit hain ye...u think u r shakespare..

FuzzyBagel
FuzzyBagel
Student3mo

Haha, na bhai, normal insaan hun

BubblyMarshmallow
BubblyMarshmallow

Bhai thoda kam likhon na.. koi insight nahi thi..yuval ke third cousin wala analysis tha

SquishyNoodle
SquishyNoodle

Mate I'm not kidding when I say this, I didn't understand what you were saying when I read it the first time.

FuzzyBagel
FuzzyBagel
Student3mo

Ahm, you do understand it now right?

SquishyNoodle
SquishyNoodle

Yeah I did 😂. Maybe it was because of the time. However, what a thought, i really like the way you put it.

DizzyBurrito
DizzyBurrito

English me bol bhai, hindi bhi padh lunga tere lie

GigglyBagel
GigglyBagel

Lay off the red and black pills and go to the gym bro. If you don't look good after being ripped then nothing can really help you.

FuzzyBagel
FuzzyBagel
Student3mo

And then, euthanize ourselves?

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Jarred numbers really

FuzzyBagel
FuzzyBagel
Student3mo

Haha, these numbers are wrt my experience, my brothers and what the online dating scenario is.

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

Good ones never come to this dating market. They are taken off the shelf before this.

Only the left over ones head to the dating/online field.

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