Trending @Infosys; Money leading to problems in convincing my future in laws

Your gf ain't not kid bro, talk this out. Money is definitely a factor but 14lpa and 18lpa makes 32lpa and it's not like you'll stuck at 14 forever ? Explain this to her parents in a way to bring trust in you but a bitter truth, if Taj Mahal is near your home , you wouldn't want Qutub Minar is similar thought process parents have for their kids but it's doesn't mean Qutub minar is a joke. So talk this out , and make sure if she's really into you cause in majority cases either the girl or boy, backs out with a reason parents ni man rhe and all. Pyar kiya hai toh responsibility lo and usse pehle confirm kr lo pyar hi hai na attraction toh nahi cause shaadi ke baad kai log bhul jate hai love marriage thi.

They want to marry with MONEY not with You. So kick their ass and explore more!

That is the need of an hour and crux of the matter 😊

Money is important factor but if a family is just running behind paycheck then it wouldn't work.

If girl really loves u she will talk with family it's time for open conversation not some niba nibi talks as it matter of two families and life.

Just to give one example: my friend was unemployed but his girlfriend married him only as the girl was professor is some college. Girl stayed with him in his tuff time. Now my friend is auditor is UP government department.

So crux is if ur love is true it will flourish else in a few months girl will get married. She will forget u and never ever thought about u.

U will be sad for quite few months, if u date for long years like 5+ u will be said for atleast 6 month as memories will come back but after time it will fade away.

U might be from middle classes family so things would be faster in ur case as u might need to take care of family so focus on that.

Aur sach batau toh if u get married with ur gf as ur love is good then very happy for u but in case she says ghr Wale nhi manage so toh khud he chod dena.

Believe me u will get much better girl then her.

Do not mind my words I'm saying this from alot of experience from personal and from friends

They want to ensure their daughter has the same comforts in her life as she has now and doesn’t need to think about money. Someone earning 1.5 crore a year need not think about money too much. But that doesn’t mean 14LPA is poor by any standards . You star still in top 10% of this country maybe even higher. It’s difficult to convince people who measure happiness by money. They want their daughter to go to a home which makes 10 cr a year !! In life money can buy many things but not everything. If they are feeling they are getting money and a good guy they will obviously push. So onus is on your GF to push back.

this is going to be situation which places a test for your gf. if she is the one, she will be with you no matter what. if she aint, she is not the one. see 14 LPA is literally dream package for so many people out there. you should be really happy with what you have. dont overthink much bcuz greed gets you no where.

Money is definitely a factor bro. I hope you earn more in the future as per your merit. 14LPA is definitely not less but also not more.

Not sure how much you love her. But let me tell you even if they get convinced after you show them your salary slip with more than 50LPA cutoff criteria, just remember you are a part of their family on the basis of just one criteria - "your salary slip"

Anyway wish you all the luck 🤞

Your luck is awesome!
You don't know what you have dodged!

This situation sucks man, hope the almighty solves it, maybe go and discuss openly your career plan to make money and provide for the family