Modern Phenomenon
So apparently, So called 'modern' girls in cities today gather lots of memories and experiences with lots of males and get their psyche, minds, bodies or all 3 broken. Reaching older age or coming to realisation, they start searching for a good man to settle down with not knowing their broken minds would come out later on. After trying to sneakily 'settle down' with good stable guys, Over time their broken minds and bodies keeps popping out affecting the whole relationship. Simps compromise, the sane ones seperate and regret 😮💨. This scenario is very prevalent right now and growing in the market. 😬Stay safe 🤞🏻
There's nothing wrong with experiences. But you can't be a worldly 35 year old. and expect to be biologically equivalent to an early 20s, nor as naive.
Biological age matters, with or without experiences. And experience matters psychologically. Nobody, male or female, can have the same feelings when they have had past relationships that they had with their first partner. When you don't know any better, you are not comparing the present with any past.
In current age, the "custom" of marriage, as it exists in Indian society needs to die. Be with someone, only because being with them makes you happier (than alone or with another person). When that stops happening, just don't be with them.
Nothing needs to 'die' just cause it didn't work for you or u don't want to 🤷🏻♂️. This post is not about someone who completely delves in that switch and move lifestyle of being with someone as long as they 'feel good', it's about things that happen in today's world, for the ones who use deceit to ultimately 'settle down' with stable guys by hiding facts or lumping their broken baggage up with someone to carry for life.
