Missing social network
Hi Everyone, 28 F married in 2023 asking for your kind advice.
Before marriage I was socially very active like meeting friends going on trips with friends , also my friends were bachelors back then , but now by the time since all our 1996-1998 circle friends are getting married and infact I’m too. hence, I’m missing social connections.
It’s not like those activities I’m missing(trips, ghumna phirna , khana etc) , now it’s all replaced by my spouse and I’m happy to do it.happily ever after with him. But I feel there is something missing laughter like before , kitna gala faad faad k haste the dosto k sath. And then life happened with everyone.
I don’t have friends nearby to meet them and roam around , it’s all just virtual.
I don’t know if it’s only me or somebody else out there. Just expressing what I’ve been feeling. How to deal with these situations?
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True 😅
Add me on insta will exchange memes 😂 kidding but yeah not just people who are married in that 1996-98 group are feeling this, even someone like me from the same age group who isn’t married is facing the same coz most of my friends are married. I mostly overthink and sleep or go to a trip planned one with tripbae in coming weeks hoping to find new friends.
Yeah will try , thanks for your suggestion
Reconnect with your friends and keep in touch as least virtually on the phone. As for in person, try to make some new friends. Pl don't rely only on your spouse to be your friend. Not mentally healthy as a practice
It's the same for most people - this is the transition to marriage and responsibilities - we still miss our childhood too but doesn't mean we can/should be children again
Mujhse dosti karogi?
Tell your husband this he might give some suggestions..
Marriage should ban in endiya