Men who have career driven partners, need your perspective

Bro I’ll just cut to the chase -How has been married life for you? - we both think, Marriage is a sham so 🤣🤣

-How are you managing personal and professional lives? - no secret it just works (understanding and respect is the key)

-How are you managing parenting and domestic responsibilities? - No kids so parenting rules out. Got cooks for lunch and dinner. Breakfast mein banana hun 🫠 (as you can see wife k make jain)

-What changes did you make within self to break from traditional norms? - prioritise yourself over traditional norms. Sometimes it does fuck you up but thode time baad you get used to it

-Was there any friction between your parents and partner or yourself? - Kahani ghar ghar ki 😢

-Did you change cities or made any sacrifices for your partner’s career? - No city change, she did that (Mein zayada kamata hun 😈). Sacrifices for career, she did some when we changed cities but it was a mutual decision

Value system and vibe match honi chahiye baki sab will automatically fall in place

Marriage invitation kab share karoge???

I am a career thriving women. We faced alot of external challenges from family members n other people. This is how we both managed our 9am to 9pm Job including travel.

1. I used to wake up early and cook breakfast & lunch for tiffin, meanwhile husband used to iron our clothes, do his pending office chores
2. My husband used to come early from work and used to do cooking and laundry stuff, meanwhile I used to pay bills if any, meetings, rest for sometime, lit bit of cleaning n organizing things. We have maid for cleaning work.
3. We had 3 instances (3.5 years) when we both were working in different cities. We used to travel biweekly alternate types to meet eachother. Our love, respect, trust grew alot in this phase. We remember this as our honeymoon phase as we became very lovey dovey n had our best seg during this period
4. His family was not supportive at all it was more difficult for him during this phase
5. We have a baby girl now. We have kept 1 nany plus I have taken wfh. I go to office 1 day and that day my husband takes wfh. We still follow same schedule,just that I have to cook different meal for my baby and we dont make a separate dinner. Afternoon leftover plus chixken or paneer salad. We have purchased clothes drier which saves us some time. We have started using oven more for our cooking. Additionally it becomes very tiring for me with all the work after c section, so I have kept a massage lady who comes in Morning which helps me. Just FYI my husband has given me many massages during my pregnancy n post pregnancy which helped me alot. After coming from office my husband spends time with baby.

Since we both worked very hard from the start we have made very good assests together. It's wonderful now, we 3 hug eachother at the end of the day n sleep.

Bdw our routine was not like fixed all time as there were days when one person was obviously more tired or we had arguments. We do used to order from swiggy or outside for lunch/dinner sometimes.

@BeingCivil Getting hitched kya?

Don't have the answers. But my only wish is I find someone like this. 🌟