MagicalJellybean
MagicalJellybean
4mo

Men who decided to stay unmarried, was it worth it?

I am 26 male and have no desire to marry. I like my peace and don't want to destroy it by getting married. So i want to know about others experience on this. Men who are unmarried and above 40 yrs age, was it worth it? Are you happy? Do you feel loneliness because all of your friends are married? Please tell me your answer, i need it

4mo ago
FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala

Yes, I live alone, and I'm perfectly happy. With passing years, you become more and more comfortable with your own company, so after a while there is no more loneliness, just peace and freedom.

Being a alone is a physical condition. But what matters is your mental attitude towards it. If you mentally resent being alone, it becomes loneliness. If you mentally enjoy being alone, it becomes blissful and peaceful solitude.

Hope that helps. Good luck 👍

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget

But what if you feel both time to time? Sometimes you like being happy and sometimes lonely

QuirkyJellybean
QuirkyJellybean

Curious doubt. What about the urge for physical intimacy and sex? Don't you feel the need for it ?

SillyMochi
SillyMochi

💯 enjoying it. Bunch of hookers and coke is my life

QuirkyJellybean
QuirkyJellybean

Which city do you live in

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

Sorry for the innocent doubt I have, what you mean by hookers are essentially "escorts" right? Not like some Red light areas?

TwirlyPickle
TwirlyPickle

I'm not 40 but don't stay alone, it's that u haven't experienced relationship recently and u have started liking solitude, But bro when she comes the one u love, changes everything 😁

SnoozyBanana
SnoozyBanana
4mo

What if we don't love ourselves - then the love of/for someone else becomes a burden, isn't it

QuirkyQuokka
QuirkyQuokka

It's a total loss for a man. If you end up with a narcissist then your life will get destroyed, if you ended up with a simpleton then also you will suffer immensely.

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