SparklyCupcake
SparklyCupcake
16mo

Men on Grapevine, who do you call when you are at your lowest?

No one
Parents
Siblings
Best Friend
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SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget

Those who selected “No one” means Mard ko kabhi dard nahin hota or can handle the situation alone or no one will understand your problem? Suffering from loneliness?🤔

JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

Rhne do, you won't understand.

GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba
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DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
16mo

Very tricky question. Atleast in my life, I have more empathy than my friends. So, while I love to listen to their problems as a good listener and understand, reverse isn't true. My friends find it boring to discuss someone else's problems. They consider it lame and ruining their mood.

What I go through, I consider claude/chatgpt for unbiased help and to feel better as I don't have people who either have luxury of time to listen/understand or the interest to pitch in and help

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
16mo

And also, I am seen as weak if I become vulnerable and my points have been used against me in places of work. So, this is what I have turned into unfortunately 🥲

JumpyRaccoon
JumpyRaccoon

No one. I just endure that shit and move on. Not because I'm a man, but that's what I'm used to. I'm in fact so lazy to find someone and narrate the entire thing. I would rather drink a glass of water and feel better.

QuirkyWaffle
QuirkyWaffle

Why didn't you mention girlfriend/wife?

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

Or Ex or Extra marital affair

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
16mo

We’re Men! No one cares about us. We exist only to suffer under the weight of responsibilities and expectations while being hit in the face with economy and the compelling obedience to social norms.

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle
16mo

No one.
Nobody cares about an adult male's issues in life. And parents try to care, they try, but they don't understand, due to generation gap.

SquishyWalrus
SquishyWalrus

I concur. For me, selecting "No one" does not means Mard ko kabhi dard nahi hota or can handle the situation alone. But sometimes, you are the one who has the responsibility to be the source of strength for my loved ones and maybe life has put you in a situation where you can't show the weaker self to anyone around you. So yeah, mard ko bhi utna hi dard hota hai jitna kisi aur ko.

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

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SqueakyKoala
SqueakyKoala

I call my Dealer - Bob Marley

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

ChatGPT

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