DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle

Men of GV, would you choose such a woman?

I was 'accused' of looking for women accounts through my previous question, but my intentions have been never purer

A woman who earns well, lets say 1L / month (pay parity is considered, got you gurl!) Has no loans Can cook well, keeps house clean Great family person, very loving and caring Love to eat out

but higher BMI and not good looking as per 'society standards'

Would you choose such a woman?

P.S. Grapevine please don't delete this. It is hypothetical, I love and respect all women

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MagicalWaffle
MagicalWaffle

Depending on you, if you think you love her then you can choose her and if you are seeing only this quality and not love her then you shouldn't do it.
I have seen lots of women completely change after hitting some gym and if she wants to try it out then I think it's possible that you may start liking her if you are not able to love her right now on this condition of her.

WobblyLlama
WobblyLlama

I will never marry , I am eating 1 roti and high protein intake , daily gym to keep ke fit. And if she is not serious of health and have all the things I will not marry. At the end we have to be naked infront of each other

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Last line ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

FuzzyHamster
FuzzyHamster

A hypothetical question from us.. Assume that you found this ideal girl.. who is a super woman who is earning well.. takes care of house. Cooks well..etc etc.. and also have ideal. BMI..and you are lucky enough that she marries you.. u have a good 1-2 years.. and then starts gaining weight.. due to all the stress .. what will you do.. leave/divorce her..

Again.. a hypothetical question only

DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle
EY9mo

The question is not about me, it is about general public

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

I would love her more ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ because it's my love, acceptance and motivation that can help her in the hard time. The shape can come back later in future, but right now my acceptance is important for her.

TwirlyWalrus
TwirlyWalrus

I would marry any girl be it very fat or very thin, hot af or ugliest in the world. Only condition is have a kind heart.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

@AnxietyProne bhai aap username kuch positive sa rkho please. ๐Ÿ˜Š

DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle
EY9mo

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I will change

DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle
EY9mo

Changed brother! ๐Ÿ™

DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle
EY9mo

The saints of men we have here! God bless people

WobblyLlama
WobblyLlama

Exactly ๐Ÿ’ฏ

CosmicNoodle
CosmicNoodle

I think after a while, looks don't matter that much, it's daily habbit that counts. Peace is the top priority for everyone, I think.
Being healthy and active is most of the time are personal choices. You can't force it on anyone.

BouncyCupcake
BouncyCupcake
Student9mo

Because how OP said it, I would have not married her. Thinking through OPs head, they defenitely do not believe that this prospect is what they want. Screw society.

My lady should feel gorgeous to me.
Like an angel by the day and diva by the night. There should be absolutely no doubt in my mind but a burning desire when I say yes.

If you are having 2nd thoughts, drop it. I am not here to settle.

SquishyCoconut
SquishyCoconut

Higher BMI could be due to underlying health problems also. Important thing here is....what do you think about the women you have described? Many people specially post covid got into bad shape due to numerous reasons but does that make someone less like able? I don't think so. Outer beauty can be changed but inner ones can't. So focus on inner qualities than outer.

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