DancingDonut
DancingDonut
15d
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Mein bahut bada C HOON

I never thought I’d say this out loud, but after 5 years of marriage and becoming a parent, I feel like I might not be made for this life.

There’s a constant weight of guilt—like I’m failing not just my partner, but also my child and the expectations society places on us. Somewhere along the way, I lost emotional connection. There’s been no intimacy for months, and even basic closeness feels distant now. It’s hard to admit, but I don’t feel the same when I look at her anymore.

I keep asking myself: did I marry for the wrong reasons? Was it just to fit into what everyone expects?

I don’t have answers yet. Just confusion, guilt, and a sense that something inside me has changed.

15d ago
JazzyMuffin
JazzyMuffin
14d

Bro, don't look back, find things to enjoy, literally ask for 10 days leave, go for a 5 day family vacation, 5 day either friends vacation or alone vacation, come back refreshed and do the it all over again

DancingDonut
DancingDonut
14d

Bro jis ladki ke saath rehne ka man nhi kerta uske saath ghumne kaise jau

SnoozyMochi
SnoozyMochi

Is there somebody else that you want to get along with?

DancingDonut
DancingDonut
6d

No one bro i need peace

SnoozyMochi
SnoozyMochi

maybe things have changed so drastically between you guys so you are not feeling like before

CosmicBiscuit
CosmicBiscuit

Trust me u r the best creation of God just trust on God nd do ur best

CosmicMarshmallow
CosmicMarshmallow

Have you tried to introspect- on what was working earlier and what’s not working now? Having a child brings new responsibilities to a couple’s life. Both people start to prioritise different things which sometimes causes an imbalance in their own relationship.
Introspect first. Talk to her. Let her also introspect and then talk about both of your feelings.

DizzyBoba
DizzyBoba

Woh to tu hai.

Guilt kyu kr rha, chill mar, ek hi hai zindagi, jee le, apne se kam successful logo ko dekh, sukoon mil jayega.

CosmicBiscuit
CosmicBiscuit

You did everything right

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