Matrimony is the way?
I'm 27 and thinking it's time to start exploring matrimony seriously. That said, I'm not someone who wants to rush into marriage within 6 months of liking someone seriously.
If everything clicks with the right person, I'm ready to commit 100% with the intention to marry for sure but probably around age 29. I want to take my time to truly know and understand someone deeply, without feeling pressured or rushed.
So, I'm curious that do women exist on matrimony platforms who are genuinely open to marriage but also willing to take a couple of years to build a strong foundation before tying the knot? No misleading intentions, just honest patience.
PS: Of course, I could start searching on my own, but would love to hear your thoughts and experiences.
Dude girls family wont wait for longer time . I choose one guy from matrimony ,he committed me for marriage and asked sometime to wait as we were in long distance relationship and he wanted to sort things out. During that year i struggled due to health issues and after one year his mind changed his efforts changed and at last started saying that he is still not sure to get married like 2 years i waited foolishly . He is not fake , neither made any scam but obvious without his family intervention he dragged it and made it just like a timepass . And thats really an emotional damage to a girl who trusted him lot. So in my opinion 7-8 months is fine to know about a girl.
I get your point, and I think 7-8 months is fine.
But I keep on hearing stories that arranged marriage set too takes a lot of times and a couple of bad experiences before you find someone genuine and so on.
So that’s what the pov is …if I want to get married by 29 (I can get married later but would not prefer earlier than that)…and it’s gonna take a few misses before I find the one…I need to start looking for one now .
(It’s confusing I know🫠🫠🫠)
Matrimony is not dating. 99% of times, families are involved in each listing. So, exploring and deciding is rare. Having said that, gender ratio is skewed and girls are left with lots of interests to choose from. This takes a lot of time to respond and same listing will be active for few months.
Most listings are genuine and serious about getting married since families are involved.
27 is already late. Unless you are well earning, educated from T1 college, or plainly lucky, you are no longer in the position of " choosing".
Honestly, a lot of those accounts are run by parents. I once made a profile and got “Hi, I’m his father” messages more than from the actual guy 😅 It can be hard to connect directly, but yes, some people do end up finding good matches there.
Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude, TBH I am also looking on the matrimonial website for a couple of months and I am also 27 years old. I think that getting a job in this day and age is easier than finding a compatible woman. There is no such thing called a perfect partner there are some challenges and problems, what we need to see is that if they are willing to fight it. Dm if you want to discuss, I would love to hear your experiences.
