WobblyWaffle
WobblyWaffle

Marrying a Govt Teacher

I recently resigned from Wipro and presently working in a small startup learning how to create, position and sell a product and other things like development etc. so it's a mixed role very early stage startup. I happened to get a proposal from common family member to marry a girl having govt job from tier 2-3 city let's say if I get married I will have to move with her as per her job, is there anything that I can do remotely? I am a strong motivated person who wants to bring change to society and do enterpreneurship. Will I be able to find new avenues marrying her and moving with her.

I am 29 right now, I don't have any financial backup and no ancestral land. Considering this I think this is the best match for me as of now. Can anyone help me should I go ahead and marry or focus on career first work hard with startups and move around and then marry later at 32 and 33.

I haven't talked to girl as of now and not sure what's on plate but since she is my common relat ive what I have heard is she is good cultured and very empathetic.

27d ago
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JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

Nahhh, you are headed for disaster. Why haven’t you intimated about your job situation to the girl side yet? My assumption is, they are going for you, looking at your SE Job with Wipro. The moment you explain about startup thing, they may back out.

Also, remote job, startup etc, from Tier2/3 cities, is too much luck to expect. If you marry, chances are that you may be earning meagre amount in near future, and you may lose respect among girl’s side, which will bring immense pressure on you.
So just keep all these aspects in mind.

WobblyWaffle
WobblyWaffle

Yeah that sounds correct thanks

JazzyPretzel
JazzyPretzel

Bro dont believe on the girls. Focus on your career and marry the girl who is ready to relocate to your location.

FloatingRaccoon
FloatingRaccoon

Mostly u will get gold diggers and scammers in arranged marriage

ZippySushi
ZippySushi

She can work in any private school in the same city where you work.

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

Marry later

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

How did you conclude about your reloaction without talking to her?

JazzyKoala
JazzyKoala

Find a Government Service Girl in your city.

You both get best of world. Her job provides financial security in hard times.

Your work allows for chance at big ticket numbers whenever you succeed.

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