ZoomyPenguin
ZoomyPenguin

Married Couples: what's the reason you're not planning for a kid?

Health Issues 🩺
Can't be a Good Parent 😞
Financial Issues 💰
Couple Relationship Issues 💔
Worried for Kid's future already 🥺
Want Peace in life 👶🏻
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PrancingPenguin
PrancingPenguin

Capitalism is failing after a certain point, it'll lead to oligarchy, which will result in modern slavery to your kid if you're not wealthy enough as of now most ppl are first generation rich but will not stay the same in future. And in new trend where ppl are treated like disposals by organizations in exchange of 12 hrs of work by instilling fear of lay off instead of giving appraisal is concerning 😟. India is growing ❎ Some ppl in the country is growing ✅

GigglyWaffle
GigglyWaffle

I mean thats how it is in the US right now. India is not in late stage capitalism yet imo

DizzyMarshmallow
DizzyMarshmallow

Nope man We will become like USA. Rich will be richer and poor will be very poor.
This happened when kings ruled as well Now we have democracy but still its like that

ZestyNarwhal
ZestyNarwhal

There should be an option for all of the above 😑 Like having a kid is so expensive. It’s not like ok imma take care of this child for only two years. It’s literally a lifetime commitment which in Indian household is like until you die 🥲 And moreover our parents generation were not a good parents. I know they did their best but some traumas have impacted so deeply. And I don’t have a good role model to not f-up the child’s childhood.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

One of my friend choose the option 4. Well he is married but virgin. Thanks

SillyBoba
SillyBoba

Your comment is either a serious issue or a complete joke.

BouncyCupcake
BouncyCupcake
TCS6d

Most of them have health issues, and even 2ppl are earning they don’t want to take care in invest in child.

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