Marriage suggestions

Hi, please help with your thoughts no rude comments please we are currently considering two potential matches for our cousin. She is 30 years old, sensitive by nature, and has some health concerns, so we want to make a thoughtful decision. She is also a single child being raised by a single parent, so her emotional and practical support system is limited. Because of this, we want to be extra careful in making a decision that will secure her well-being and long-term happiness.

Match 1: Tech Professional

He is financially stable and works in the tech field.

However, he has a habit of lying frequently—even about small things.

This makes us concerned about his emotional maturity and whether he can truly understand or respect other people's feelings, especially in a long-term relationship

Match 2: Long-time Friend

This person is her close friend and has emotionally supported her in tough times, including during a recent hospitalization.

They have frequent small arguments but always reconcile, which shows connection but also an ongoing emotional instability.

He is not financially independent, hasn’t completed his graduation, and currently may earn around ₹10,000/month after long hours of work.

Our sister is quite decent, responsible, and future-oriented, but he is the opposite—lacking direction and long-term planning.

If they marry, most financial and household responsibilities will likely fall on her, creating a potential mismatch in expectations.

This imbalance could cause her additional stress, both emotionally and physically, especially given her health condition.

We’ve also noticed that emotional tension from their frequent arguments sometimes negatively impacts her health.

we are trying to balance emotional connection and trust against practical long-term stability. While her age is a factor and we don’t want to delay marriage too much, this is a lifelong decision and needs careful thought. We would appreciate your guidance on which match may be a better fit for her, taking into account emotional security, health, and long-term stability. Also, please suggest reliable platforms or ways to explore better matches online.