Marriage Pressure – Need Advice
I’m 22 years old, and my family wants me to get engaged and eventually married soon. They've said they can wait at most until the end of this year. However, I’m not ready for that. I want to focus on my personal goals and growth right now, and I don’t want the next year of my life to be shaped by pressure to marry.
Unfortunately, they are not willing to understand my perspective. This topic comes up almost every day, and it's becoming emotionally exhausting. I feel stuck and don’t know how to handle this situation anymore.
If you can offer any advice, I’d truly appreciate it. And if not, please just keep me in your prayers.
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22 saal me kaun shaadi karta hai Bhai!! I think you must be a girl, but marrying at 22 yr seems just too early. You can tell them that you want to grow up your career a bit before marrying.
Bro I will pray for you 😂🫶🏻
Thanks
Put a condition for marriage to them. Like u wanna marry a girl who has xyz degree or u wanna date for 6 month and then decide etc. Resistance is mentally exhausting so avoid it and find alternatives
if you’re a guy, level up and don’t get married early my parents tried to force it on me too! I rejected and ejected
Tell your parents, that you haven’t yet established stability in your career and that you don’t have enough financial resources. If you don’t agree with this reason, consider applying for jobs outside of your hometown. Let your parents know that by doing this, you will work towards achieving stability in your career. This may also create some distance that could ease their pressure on you about getting married, as there will be less direct communication with them.
Ok sure
When they told you something and you don't want it -- simply do not answer just listen to them just don't answer because we can't argue with our parents, we respect them no matter what.
This is the best thing you can do. Or whenever they start talking about your marriage leave the place or start doing your task.
It's easy to say but hard to follow because I live with them and whenever they see me, they start talking about it