Marriage Government job vs private job wife

How do you plan for staying in different job locations? Unless the girl’s Govt is in same city (may be some Central Govt job), it would be extremely difficult. But I know some people doing this, husband-wife in job in two different cities, in some cases, the work-from-home option helps, but what if that option goes away.

I am completely against the idea of husband-wife staying in two different cities, specially in the initial few yrs of the marriage. That seems like a disastrous plan to me.

Govt job, Your health is sorted for life.

Choose someone who is there with you like a rock during the time of help and crisis.

No matter what the sector she is working in.

Job is meaningless here. The culture and the values of her family and the circumstances of her childhood matters.

I know women who stood by their family even when they had better jobs
I know women who threw away their husbands when they found a better job