
Marriage confusion
What is marriage according to you guys? Which one is better love marriage or arranged marriage ?

Which is better, apple or orange

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if you have to think about all this, then don't do it, you'll end up ruining someone's life

How can you get married without thinking ? And how does thinking about my life ruined others ? It's not like I'm gonna get married some random person. I'm just asking suggestions since I'm not sure how to select the person or If I ever find a person

again: because of evolution, these things should be natural, if not, that's the reason divorces exist. So avoid.

Itβs not about love or arrange marriage, rather finding a partner with whom you can see a future, goals aligned, kind of lifestyle, thought process etc. I believe this is the right approach.

Yes, But I have a doubt, In indian arrange marriage system how do I get to know all the things you mentions such as lifestyle, What if they mention one and follow the other ? I'm really scared actually

All arranged, successful marriages end up with couple being in love. Most love marriages end up like "this is not the person I loved". If love is a prerequisite for marriage, sudden lack of it automatically becomes a justification for separation. It's not pre-marriage love that keeps couples together in the long term. It's the commitment, caring and sharing that does. It boils down to what love really means. Love marriage is simply lust marriage. Real love develops with unconditional, sacred commitment to care over 10+ years.

Both are good. Just marry whoever has more money π

Kuch bhi karlo, but ache bande/bandi karna Jo compatible ho aur tumhe attractive lage.

If the partner is good, doesn't matter. I've seen perfect arranged marriages and terrible love marriages and vice versa

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