FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato

Marriage confusion

What is marriage according to you guys? Which one is better love marriage or arranged marriage ?

8mo ago
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MagicalBiscuit
MagicalBiscuit

Which is better, apple or orange

SillyPenguin
SillyPenguin

Angoor.🤣

FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato

🤣🤣 So, whats your thought about marriage then ?

MagicalKoala
MagicalKoala

Love marriage is better

FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato

Can you pls explain

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

if you have to think about all this, then don't do it, you'll end up ruining someone's life

FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato

How can you get married without thinking ? And how does thinking about my life ruined others ? It's not like I'm gonna get married some random person. I'm just asking suggestions since I'm not sure how to select the person or If I ever find a person

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

again: because of evolution, these things should be natural, if not, that's the reason divorces exist. So avoid.

SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin

It’s not about love or arrange marriage, rather finding a partner with whom you can see a future, goals aligned, kind of lifestyle, thought process etc. I believe this is the right approach.

FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato

Yes, But I have a doubt, In indian arrange marriage system how do I get to know all the things you mentions such as lifestyle, What if they mention one and follow the other ? I'm really scared actually

GroovyMochi
GroovyMochi

Both are good. Just marry whoever has more money 😂

QuirkyCupcake
QuirkyCupcake

Kuch bhi karlo, but ache bande/bandi karna Jo compatible ho aur tumhe attractive lage.

ZestyPretzel
ZestyPretzel

All arranged, successful marriages end up with couple being in love. Most love marriages end up like "this is not the person I loved". If love is a prerequisite for marriage, sudden lack of it automatically becomes a justification for separation. It's not pre-marriage love that keeps couples together in the long term. It's the commitment, caring and sharing that does. It boils down to what love really means. Love marriage is simply lust marriage. Real love develops with unconditional, sacred commitment to care over 10+ years.

GoofyCupcake
GoofyCupcake

If the partner is good, doesn't matter. I've seen perfect arranged marriages and terrible love marriages and vice versa

SwirlyJellybean
SwirlyJellybean
EY8mo

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