Marriage
What is the ideal age to get married for man?
Koi milna bhi to chahie
If you're earning well, before 26, else before 29.
What do you mean well earning? For bangalore
If you can sustain a family(currently only two of you but 2-3 years later down the line, add for kids as well) without compromising on the basic necessities. This varies from person to person and place to place, you need to take your expenses and calculate it based on that reference.
There is no point in rushing into marriages. Marriage is a social construct to bind two people into a legal contract to sacrifice everything just to raise a child. In this set up either gender will get exploited by the stronger mind amongst the two. Further, assuming you are a middle class working employee, good luck with getting out of middle class miseries ever in your life with this contract hanging on your head.
The world is already over populated with dwindling resources. Try and adopt kids rather than producing new ones if you are so keen on raising kids. There are so many deserving orphans who do not have the option to grow up healthy. Give them an option. In my opinion two people in true love don't need a marriage or any certificate to prove to any one. Nowadays partnership is a legally accepted relationship status with much simpler norms. Marriage is soon going to be an obsolete phenomenon with too many loose threads hanging on it. https://msselo297.medium.com/reasons-why-marriage-is-an-outdated-institution-that-doesnt-benefit-most-people-cae86a4de59d#:~:text=Marriage%20is%20an%20outdated%20societal,their%20commitment%20to%20one%20another%3F
Ha ha ,have seen how west have grown up ousting marriages. Single mothers,OF women, drug abused children confused over their gender which is more than the numbers of bacteria present on Earth living off state sanctioned welfare funds. How much funds does your state have? Universal rule: Either you learn from seeing others or go through the same phase to learn but anyway lesson will be there.
Kabhi nahi kabhi nahi kabhi nahi
For men or women? Matters a bit if you're planning on having (multiple) kids. IVF is an (emotionally) expensive proposition.
I have known my colleague for about a year. She is 30, and I'm 25. Over time, we have developed strong feelings for each other and truly love each other.
She is mature, kind, and understanding - and she has asked me about marriage a couple of times. However, I'm finding it difficult to make a decision right now. Maybe it's because of the 5-year age gap or my worries about the future. Our cast is the same so I am not worried abt that.
I'm not very financially stable at the moment, but despite that, she's willing to stand by me and even marry me. I really like her as a person and don't want to lose her, but at the same time, I feel unsure about whether I'm ready for marriage at this age.
I'd like some advice how should I think about this situation and make the right decision for both of us?
If you really love her, you should go ahead. But if you are having doubt, do not go ahead. Not now but in future you will start having second thoughts
If you wanna get married get married early. That way both will be in a position to adjust and work it out. If you get married late, both will not be flexible and it's gonna be a mess.
Sooner the better
