Lost people and now lost the zeal to move ahead
I have recently lost some people in my life(loss of life) and I don't want to pick and define relation but the feeling is same as when you lose someone close. The gravity of pain is more than one can imagine. Due to this I have lost interest in doing anything. I cannot take steps to better my future be it skill or switching company. I open my eyes at 9 in the morning and get out of bed by almost 11 because I don't have the zeal anymore. The missing feeling is eating me up. Sometimes I order food and eat even though I didn't want to. I also suffer from social anxiety. I don't know if there is any solution to this. If yes then please help me because I want to better my life but unable to.
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I faced this and I still do, ever since I lost my girlfriend. Now I lost interest in relationships, friendships, relatives, or doing my work. There were a lot of days where I just woke up, felt really lazy, sad, empty, lethargic and put a leave and laid on bed for the whole day. I loved watching a lot of movies/series but lost interest in that too!
I tried reconnecting with friends, with new people, travelling, badminton, movies - all short term/momentary reliefs. I couldn't find any solution so far!
And yeah, I've ordered food even though I didn't want to too!! Shitty stuff but the mind just doesn't function!
We are in the same boat
You have to accept that all living beings, especially humans, are destined to die and cannot live forever. It highlights the finite nature of human existence and the inevitability of death.
The way forward to life is meeting new people, building new relationships and learning new things!
Don't get confined in a place.Move around outside and engage yourself.These situations and experience make people stronger.The experience you have is what people go through with love failure, rejection and loosing closed one
You should consider going to a therapist. It gives you a safe space to talk about everything you're going through without hesitation, and it really helps lighten your mind.
Tried therapist. Didn't help much.
Start going to spiritual places and join some class to learn anything of your interest. Keep yourself busy with good activities. Do visit old age homes, orphanages as well, which will make you realise how much fortunate you still are after all those losses
Perhaps can try this