Looking for Gay in Bangalore who is still in the closet
I don't know whether this is the right platform to post. I find myself in a unique situation where I am seeking for a companionship with a man who identifies as gay but has a straight appearance or someone who is asexual. I'm a techie and I am specifically looking for a partner who is in Bengaluru. It is important to me that this person does not have any plans for biological parenthood, as I am seeking a relationship that allows us to prioritize our individual goals and aspirations. But I'm okay with adoption or surrogacy in case the person wants to have a baby.
I am a confident and independent individual who values authenticity and open communication. I believe that this kind of arrangement can provide both parties with stability and support while allowing us to maintain our personal identities and freedom. Mutual respect and understanding are crucial elements for me in navigating this journey.
If you are a man who aligns with the qualities I am seeking and are interested in exploring the possibility of a companionship, I would be open to connecting and discussing our compatibility further. Let’s embark on this journey together with honesty, understanding, and a shared vision for our individual happiness and fulfilment.Please mail me at truecompanionship24@gmail.com if you want to connect further.
P.S: Straight people please don't judge me, I'm someone who is still in the closet due to some personal reasons.Many women who are lesbians by nature ended up getting married to men due to various reasons, social reason being predominant. I don't want to make anyone's life miserable and don't want to cheat someone so took this decision.
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I think you can post in ‘Finding Romance’ and ‘Adulting’ platforms. Might be better chances there.
Interesting post. Just makes me wonder why would a Gay guy want a companionship (followed with marriage?) with an asexual or lesbian woman. I thought Gay meant sexual inclination to men.
Also, your P.S. parts implies your sexual orientation as Lesbian, so then why would even an asexual guy like to go into a companionship (followed with marriage I guess) with a lesbian woman?
In both the scenario, I see an unlikely match. Only possible match I see, is of Asexual man and Asexual woman, getting married for companionship and to avoid family’s and society’s scrutiny. So, what am I not getting here I wonder… 🤔 In any case, Best wishes for the search👍
There'sa Bollywood movie on this Badhai Do. Rajkumar Rao n Bhumi. It will answer your question
I am really sad to think about the child you are planning in futufuture, by surrogacy or adoption. How much torcher he hav to go though in his life with 2 dads? I am straight and I am planning to not havie chchil because I am not confident in giving him the best life that he deserves and of course to make my life easier too.
I am a woman and will always remain the same. So according to you I'll be a dad just because I'm not sexually attached to a man? And I know if I raise a kid I will raise him/her well. Anyways my purpose here is not to argue with anyone. People's opinions reflect their mindset and character.
This is such sad thing with our society. I'm sorry you have to seek something you don't wish to. I hope you find a partner who understand you well!
Hey @stunningrainbow , I understand where you are coming from. I wanna understand why specifically look for gay / asexual? Why not look for straight guy as well and you both decide to have an open marriage? Agreed that most straight men won't want this if it means to not be with the women they love and desire (as married couples) but it's still an option