Looking for competent engineers for friendship

Where do I find people doing core work and cool af stuff, basically the 10x engineer from the POV of average engineer?

I have no outlet to nerd about IRL, just sometimes online. It's lonely towards the top. WFH doesn't help.

I'm not even asking for a girl man, I just want people who know their shit inside out, can follow my train of thought or nerdiness, and I can learn from them. (Though a girl like that would be a bonus...)

Forget being friends, just tell me what are y'all doing?