Long life is curse especially in Endia

Having long life is curse especially in Endia, I have always seen my Nani as old, always, I am 30+ now and I am not the oldest grandchild in the family, I might be youngest one in family, she might be in late 90s or crossed even 100 don’t know, no one knows her DOB. No one cares for her, she has 3 daughters and no one keeps her in their house, she had bent back since as long as I can remember, she is going on and on, it is like punishment by God or something, majority of her old life she spent fighting court case against distant relatives who wanted her land, she fought for very long time, she used to come from Bengal to Ballia to fight the case, we are native from Ballia, she lived in Bengal, she used to meet lawyer, SDM, judges, it was quite sad actually, my father helped her in her fight. She also have 1 adopted son who is married and have 2 kids, she adopted the kid but did not prepare any document to show that she adopted, just adopted him, he is my Mama. Now the Mama wife wants all the property, Nani's 3 daughters also don’t pay much attention to my Nani. We have heard that my Mama’s wife abuse my Nani and don’t give her food properly, or my Nani prepares food herself, no one gives sh*t in my family even my Mom. Last time i saw my Nani she looked so frail, so frail, she looked frail in 2019 also, don’t know how she is alive, maybe god’s punishment. She was quite arrogant throughout her life, still is , she listens to no one, no one. She can’t hear or see properly now. All her distant relatives against whom she was fighting court case has been dead, some due to cancer, I think she won that case, never asked my parents about it. Wanted to share this story with you guys. Life after 60-70 is not easy, so pray you get easy death and you are cremated properly. Well I have seen Dogs eating bones in cremation ghat of Varanasi, but I will not go to that.