Like do the marriage or relationship really seems good fron outside and sucks inside?

I think its common, my newly wed neighbours are always fighting even when they have daughter now. They both try to flee home for months by taking some foreign assignment and leaving daughter to grandmothers. Feels weird , they should never been married.

You need to follow news more often, this was not the first case.

Just go and read the Indian martial laws. It's sa, traumatic and ironical how the system which is supposed to serve justice is itself so biased against men. Men are treated as guilty until proven wrong in trial, instead of innocent until trial. And the most disappointing thing is the actual x% rural women population for whom these laws are created are actually not the ones leveraging these, instead men are being exploited by well educated, well earning women of the so called privileged society.