Life is Boring, how are you guys even surviving?
It's like i am living the same groundhog day - going to office returning late feeling all tired, repeat.
Software job ain't interesting nor do i have any goals. I don't want a big car, big house, girls, nothing. I don't care about the American dream. Life's just boring, i don't care about my health i rather die early, i don't want to have a six pack.
I don want to have these FAKE goals that normal people have. What's the point of anything?
We Are just ants with a brain that tortures us even more. I can't take it anymore, the mundaness is killing me from the inside
Talking product sense with Ridhi
9 min AI interview5 questions
Watch the Groundhog Day movie again, you will learn to appreciate the mundaneness of the routine.
Donโt hesitate to break the routine sometimes, take necessary breaks to break the monotonous routine.
Donโt just keep accumulating wealth, spend on the things which you make happy, spend time in nature, go on a vacation, learn something new, enjoy the hobbies; if you donโt have one then fine some new hobby.
Remember, life is not linear, at any point of time if you feel you can do something better than IT job then donโt hesitate to do what you love, itโs not easy to leave the current job when you have a family and bills/EMIs to pay, think about it during the weekends, you will find a way to enjoy the life again. All the best! :)
Will try to watch this movie
Get married. Boredom will disappear. ๐
Replacing one problem with another ๐
Great , now you have the freedom to do what you want because you don't care about superficial stuff.
Just go do things that you want to or like to. Life's short, make the most of it.
LoL life is short like a lemon, when squeezed in a lemonade or made a pickle with it, making the people savour the flavour out of it and passing the seeds to help the subsequent generations feel the same, isn't it?
Stop smoking stuff bro. Come back to reality, Sorry but I can't sugarcoat things. I won't lie I never had this feeling, I did. But what pushes me is my parents, wanna give them the life they sacrificed for my upbringing. I want a big car, want a big house, why not chase things which makes you happy? Which makes your loved one's happy?Be it materialistic. People around me, People I care for should be happy af, and I am ready to live this groundhog day everyday for them.
"i don't care about my health i rather die early"
- OP
And that is a clear explanation of why you'll always be stuck in this loop
You are privileged to not have any problem inflicted in your life. Enjoy it and do something with it when others canโt
We are not born with any glorious purpose buddy. Just take care of yourself, your loved ones. Don't get sick. I was also going through similar phase where everything felt pointless. One day 11 am in the morning,l was craving something tasty to eat , went out ,ordered bunch of different items from the menu, while eating desert i got that AHA moment. I was like , life isn't that bad after al ,atleast i can eat whatever i want whenever i want. There are people out there who will have a montly groceries budget less than my online orders. From that day i am grateful for everything i ever had .lalso don't have big ambition, but now i started to find contentment in small things.
I want to grow but on my own pace.
Don't know what I am doing wrong
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Man I struggle to sleep until 1 or 2am,honestly I think you have a very good routine,Be happy about it.

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