Life Gyaan 101 Part 1

WigglyRaccoon · 2025-06-09T01:15:26.032781+05:30

1. Never marry a girl whose parents net worth is higher than yours. In general terms your car should be bigger’s than them. In return you will get much respect by your in-laws during visits. 2. Keep a savings account hidden from everyone including your parents, spouse etc. put 20-35% of your earnings in that. This will cover you when no-one else. 3. When talking about marriage via WhatsApp or any call, use the word “gift” as much as you can instead of any demand. 4. If you’re spouse have a elder brother, make sure he never knows about your true networth, if he’s businessman then definitely stay away. 5. Parents will find it hard to adjust with a working spouse, unless the MIL is herself. Prepare for worst case scenario before things turn ugly. 6. If possible do some stress test on your spouse, this will help you understand their breaking point. 7. Invest early in Stocks & MF, when buying house use your own loan or cash instead of parents. This will make things less complicated in future.

Never marry a girl whose parents net worth is higher than yours. In general terms your car should be bigger’s than them. In return you will get much respect by your in-laws during visits.
Keep a savings account hidden from everyone including your parents, spouse etc. put 20-35% of your earnings in that. This will cover you when no-one else.
When talking about marriage via WhatsApp or any call, use the word “gift” as much as you can instead of any demand.
If you’re spouse have a elder brother, make sure he never knows about your true networth, if he’s businessman then definitely stay away.
Parents will find it hard to adjust with a working spouse, unless the MIL is herself. Prepare for worst case scenario before things turn ugly.
If possible do some stress test on your spouse, this will help you understand their breaking point.
Invest early in Stocks & MF, when buying house use your own loan or cash instead of parents. This will make things less complicated in future.

9mo ago

CosmicLlama

Freelancer

9mo

If this comes from a bad exp, i can understand. But if this is from theory, none applicable in practical life.

Pt 1 -. In arranged marriage world, no bride's family is going to marry down. The groom will not even be considered if they think their family is below them in standards - monetary or otherwise. The only time this will happen is when they think the groom is at a better level. Meaning the groom is a doctor, a UPSC guy or lives abroad, has a foreign degree etc. So this whole bigger car logic is moot. Respect comes from individuals behaviour more than anything else. Simps don't get respect anywhere.

Pt.2 - unless a person is one of those GV people who earns 50+lpa... It's impossible. Nirmala tai takes her cut first. Balance with EMIs,and house expenses, saving 30% in slush funds is very difficult. Impossible if married.
Pt3. - asking for gifts during marriage will only push the other party to a shell. They won't give even a spoon. Instead , if having expectations marry into a family that happily gives "gifts". Then giving "happily" is the key word.

Pt 4- I do agree on this. But it's also impossible. Women may hide from the inlaws but never from their own family. Mans behaviour is important here. If he is going to simp, he is going to be ruined.

Pt. 5 - certain extent agree. But depends on the woman. If the woman is going to act " independent" then yes. Feminist will never be Happy and nobody around a feminist is happy.

Pt 6 - if done before marriage, the person will never get married. If done after marriage, there will be no happiness. The easiest way would be, for men don't marry a feminist, women don't marry a simp.

Pt 7 - agreed to a certain point. But taking support from family is not a bad idea. Maturity matters here.