Life going down as hell
Hi everyone (to whoever makes an effort to read this shit)
If any grammatical mistakes please tell me i will try to improve
I thought I just needed to vent this out of my mind I am guy aged 24 with a -infinity self confidence, going through baldness, lost the love of my life because of money , working as software Developer in a finance company with 20k as my monthly salary, and I got this job with the help of my ex girlfriend and a inconsistent f loser in everything I try
I am literally not the best average looking person All I do everyday is consume motivational content everyday to tell myself I am better than everyone else
I have approx 2 friends, both ambitious and we all live in 3 different cities
I used to have a group of friends in college, but they always used to make fun and laughter of me as I was not according to their standards of money and one thing led to another now they only call me to have a laugh among themselves
My mother has very little hopes from me yet she is hopeful that I will make it one day
My worst phase of my life was when I lost the job , girl and my grandfather
So anyone who is reading this , i don't really want to quit I want to get back up
What should I do , please help guys
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You're just 24, just the beginning of your life and your career. You have at least 35 more years of your career ahead of you.
Keep learning and keep trying your best at work, and slowly knowledge and efforts will compound, and your salary will increase, and you will find more financial security and peace in life, as you get older.
If you're feeling depressed at any time, consult a doctor (psychiatrist) and they will give you medication to get rid of the depression, so you can carry on.
Don't panic so soon. You're only at the beginning of your life and career, and better days and years and decades are waiting ahead for you. So keep your chin up, and keep trying your best. That is life.
I don't know how it will work out , but hopefull everyday
Hi, You are exactly where you need to be. Don’t compare your life with others who are living a life that you assume is better than yours. I’m also in a situation similar to yours.
Don’t consume too much motivational content online. I was once like that too—watching unlimited motivational videos and assuming I was special—until I slowly learned that I’m not. Start learning what life really is. Save some money, travel to remote villages, and learn how people live there.
Don’t compare your life, appearance, or height with successful people, fair-skinned celebrities, or tall and muscular guys. Live within your means, save money for your future, and travel.
Hi, this would require some more understanding. If you feel comfortable, pls DM and we can chat.
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It feels like you are standing before a ledger where every loss is recorded in bold, and every effort is written in invisible ink. At 24, the verdict already feels final, even though the trial is far from over. But systems like this are cruel that way they convince you that circumstance is character.
You are not failing because you are weak; you are exhausted from carrying grief, comparison, and expectation all at once. The fact that you still want to get back up matters more than your salary, your hair, or anyone else’s laughter. Wanting to rise again is proof that something in you is still alive and resisting.
You are not late. You are not finished. This chapter is heavy, not permanent.
Let's hope 🤞
Ye jo bhi he ye sab log ko feel hota he, har ek ko ki wo inferior he, inferior maane value km hona or ye value evaluation sirf ham hi krte he ye bs hamare thoughts he kyu ki hame pata he ki ham mehnat kam kr rhe he ya kar hi nhi rhe he, lekin agar mehanat bhi kar rhe he or esa feel bhi ho rha he iska matlab ham greedy he to apni greed pe kaam kro apni bebuniyad icchao ko hatao mehanat kro phir socho ki mere ichhao ka dayara kitna rahega otherwise you will always live in regret.
One word answer: Over work.
Focus on improving your skills, take up some courses, become better at your job, excel at it... Then switch