Life crisis of an man

You can't compare your life apples to apples with others buddy, there will always be someone better or worse off than you somewhere in the world. And that also changes over time because change is the only constant in life.

Do your best, have reasonable and realistic expectations, try to achieve goals but don't get disheartened if you don't. The aim is to try and have patience.

Good luck with it 👍

Comparison is the thief of Joy.

At 28, I was at 7LPA, renting a flat, took a loan to get married, no savings obviously, no investments, no inheritance, mother living with me (monthly medical expenses close to 6-7k).

I did okay afterwards. It’s a phase. Don’t worry. Things will either get better.

If you think you have no talents, work harder.
Remember Hard work beats talent, if talent doesn’t work hard.

I did that and I think I am not doing very well but not doing very bad either.

As Alfred said to Batman - Endure

30 here ; same but I have bike 🏍 🥰; 4.80 L But it's fine buddy 🙂
Like is a marathon make the best of what you got and what you can
That's it
Always look at the bright side ✨️ 😌

Bro. I'm literally unplaced after doing mba from symbiosis 🥲🥲🥲

Our parents were expected to build a house and a family through their entire job.. and now why do people just take stress of achieving them in their mid 30s ?? If you got lots of hair you will lose all.. if you dont stop taking unnecessary tension

If you compare yourself with others, you will always be unhappy even after having everything. So stop comparing and focus on your growth.

And myself 25 female and my friends got married and happy in their lives. We don't have any properties are even small amount of gold we didn't have even own house. Now I have to build it. While my friends sorry even they are younger than me like 24 they are saying they are going to purchase a house in Hyderabad while selling their lands(in hometown) and of course they are also earning like me but I need to think before buying and spending but they like just chill and vibe mode. They are spending like there is no another day but still have money. Just think from my perceptive how much pressure stress I am going through

I am 31, i dont have these things as well brother. Dont worry. We will make it

The point where you started is what matters and you are way ahead from those who started at the same point.

By the way. The previous generation at 28 had babies and not the houses. That's the reality of most Indians.

For example most of my classmates didn't have house. And those few who had, got them when they were between the ages of 15 years of 18 years. So it means that even if their parents got married early say at 20 and 18, they took 15 to 18 years to build their own houses.

Expectations these days is unimaginable.

Also to those getting married. Girls are expecting way more. I understand that there are people born with silver spoons but one should understand that majority lies in the middle class. Girls will always be disappointed. Boys from elite class think will marry these girls? Nope, that won't happen. The guys from elite class also look for the same things in girls, whether from IIM or not, in some good management position or not, where do they come from etc, etc,.

Be realistic and happiness doesn't know anything. It doesn't even know what age you are.

All said aspirations are not bad. But living with guilt at the same time is the worst.

Compare yourself to your own self a year or two ago. As long as you are making progress vs your old self, you are good! There is no end to comparing to others. It only messes with our heads