Let's make a pact 🔥
Let’s make a pact not to waste our energy on people who don’t want to change. I’ve seen so many posts lately, “I’m ugly,” “I’ll never get married,” “No one understands me,” “I’m an introvert.” The same stories, every single day. You suggest ways to help, but they always find a reason to reject it.
At some point, you realize these people aren’t looking for solutions. They just want sympathy. And the more you feed that, the more stuck they stay.
Let’s save our time and energy for people who actually want to grow. There are so many out there who listen, reflect, and try, they deserve your advice, not the ones who’ve already decided to stay doomed.
Change doesn’t start with pity. It starts with action.
Haha, do one thing paint your face and then move out for an outing today. And then try to make friends. When you have an ugly face people don't want to interact. I shared what I do through. People with beautiful faces wont understand my pain. Oh yes saying you helped is easy but it isn't my friend. Imagine what I'm going through that I'm venting out like that. Who doesn't want to enjoy life?, why would you think I wrote those posts. I'm not getting accepted on matri apps and that is true. I didn't do even a bit of wrong to you just vented out my feelings here because it's anonymous platform and you said me such things just because of that.
True that. People who want to solve their problems will always find their ways somehow to deal with things the right way.
I have tried being that person to people before who would hear them out always and try to understand them and then realise that they just want to vent and cry about it and not solve….it drains you emotionally too.
So save that energy. No need to be the person who makes every effort everytime. Sometimes it’s a good call to stop putting efforts once you realise that probably there’s nothing in your control here and things have to come from within for them.
Thanks for the support 😊
I really appreciate ☺️
I don't know who you are but I would love to be your friend
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Thanks this is such an important post. It gets to a point of annoyance where you give them suggestions but they just have hard coded mentality and it just drains you. I think 80% of people in current society are like this.
Save your energy and build yourself. They are gonna stay there
@AlwaysResilient You said "Fuck off, don't reply to my posts"
Now you're commenting on my post to get attention????? Wow..... I'm not going to pity you any more. Why don't you get lost from my comment section this time....
I don't want your pity keep it in your pockets too but don't make a post on me
Why are you feeling so upset about my post @AlwaysResilient
Do you mean that you're the one I'm talking about????
Yes I'm the one talking about it i posted about that
Yeah, I agree. My inner morality often forces me to waste energy on people who have, I guess, completely given up on themselves.
