Last day of my college life...
Today is gonna be the last day of my college life , There was someone to who i adored a lot , loved a lot ,spent a lot of time together just to hear at the last moment that we are just friends despite of the fact that the things were much more than a friendship ,I blocked her on 21st sept 2023 after one year of beautiful memories i made with her and she tried to reach out to me but couldn't, The bond we shared defined a lot of things and I was there just to let my heart got shattered, maybe she didn't find me compatible or whatever but literally I never thought that things could turn out like this . Tomorrow is the last day of my college, she will come , I'll Also be there , i have memories, regrets , pain together, what will I say to her if she'll try to talk to me ,What should I say , if I will avoid her , i will regret and if she will talk to me then there will b a pain , whatever was there in my heart i have given everything to her , Time will fly but memories will be there...
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Bro ...many of us have gone through similar feelings and scenarios, I can understand what you are feeling today.
See...if you still like her, then you can try one more time by telling her your feelings very clearly that you don’t consider her as a friend but more than that...so that you don’t regret latter that you had last chance to communicate feelings clearly and you did not try. When you meet her in college ask her for coffee outing and make everything clear there.
But this should be last and final try....if she says no, or give some diplomatic replies, just leave it there and move on. Don’t say anything to her, but stop all communication with her and move on. Dont waste time thinking about her. You have just started life, you will get lot of girls and you will learn new things with each one. So, you deserve better. Go and have fun without being emotional involved.
Aati hai to welcome, Jaati hai to bheed kam......
Ek jayegi to hi to dusri ayegi mere bhai
Thanks for the great suggestions bhai mere , but I think it's not worth it because pretty much I am gonna get hurt again , I respect her decision and atleast it will help me to improve and be better and i think i am very fortunate that i faced all these things before commencement of my career . If it's in my destiny to get someone better then good otherwise kat jaayegi zindagi aise bhi
Bro everyone will give you different advice on what they have gone through. According to me it's better not to ask her out or tell your feelings or anything like that bcoz mostly she will say no and then even your self respect will be shattered. I have seen people made mistake by thinking last time it is so they ask girls out n share her feelings and finally girls reject them again. If she say hi to you also ask her hi how are you? And just move from there go to your friends or some other place and now start focusing on career. Rest is upto you how you feel and what you exact by looking at her only you know. Good luck 👍
I think you are the one who are expressing over feelings on this situation or on her.. may be she always treated you as a friend since the beginning.. ek bath bathavu kya.. apun men/boys naa ek meeting ya dho meeting pey yah.. ek mahiney or dho mahiney mein.. time doesn't matter ladki pey feelings nikalwathey he . Par ladki vaise nahi hotey Bro..this is harsh truth and remember always in life it's a true reality and Yeh GenZ ke Jamaney mein Love heee Kuch falthu ka cheez hey... Thu zydha personally math le.. chill kar . Ladki sey contact maintain kar. But No feelings on her like before... Agar kuch advantage Lena hey.. it's all on you(Note i am not judging anyone and it's purely a suggestion though) end of the day it's your life and your decisions how you make it how you live it..
Cheers!!!!
Happens with all of us brother, And we can totally understand the pain No amount of empathy/sympathy can dampen your pain at the moment but always remember that "The best way out of tough times is to pierce through them".
Stop simping and treat her trash
Bro she just needed you to fill the void in her daily life. She just wanted to chill out and hang around with you. Now that she has cleared it to you , better keep going.