Lady Rajinikant (Strictly women only read )- Make yourself a 👑Queen of your life.

Growing from a girl to a woman is a journey filled with lessons—some hard, some beautiful. I started out believing that my worth came from pleasing others, whether at home, at work, or in relationships. But the truth? Your worth is not defined by anyone else. It’s something you carry within, and you have to fight to protect it.

Skills do not need to always be coding , leadership or being smart at work. Doing good makeup, choosing your style in clothing and embracing your flaws and actuating your strengths will improve the way you look n feel great when you look at yourself. Many would say she dresses to impress yeah right impress herself not for others.Invest money time and efforts to bring on best clothes on you ,best makeup and always be confident

When it comes to relationships, especially romantic ones, let me be clear: you are not an option. You are the one. Never settle for someone who treats you like they’re doing you a favor. Choose someone who sees your light, someone who cherishes your worth without dimming it. If that person isn’t sure about you, walk away. Your life is too precious to be spent profing your value to someone who doesn’t see it.Being a girl comes with its privilege we get to choose so why not choose wisely. There are abundant men around don't be stuck if one relationship doesn't work.Align with each other's needs and ensuring right level of respect is given should be pivotal in your relationship choices.

And on days when life feels heavy, when you feel low or question your abilities, remember to keep your inner bright light alive. It’s okay to fake confidence until it becomes real. I’ve done it myself—stood tall in rooms where I felt small, smiled through doubt, and showed strength when I felt weak. Over time, it stopped being an act. Confidence became mine, and today, I don’t fake it anymore. I own it.

But let me tell you, even now, I have moments when I feel like I’m not enough. Success hasn’t erased my insecurities entirely, but I’ve learned to live with them, to grow past them. I celebrate how far I’ve come, and I stay hungry for what’s ahead.

Through all this, I’ve realized that the most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself. Learn to love who you are, take care of yourself unapologetically, and never let anyone make you feel small. Whether it’s hitting the gym, taking a long walk in the sun, or simply sitting still with your thoughts, carve out that sacred time for you.

Ladies, you are the pivot of your life. Not in arrogance, but in balance. Be strong, be kind, and never stop believing in your light. You’ve got this.

Keep shining 🌟🌟🌟🌟