Just an honest question to the men here.
You work a regular 9 to 6 corporate job stable, predictable, not overly exhausting. You come home, unwind for a bit, scroll through reels, help with chores, talk to your wife about the day, have dinner together, and go to bed.
So here’s the part no one talks about,
Why does intimacy disappear from the priority list?
Why is sex treated as optional, when it’s a fundamental part of connection, closeness, and a healthy relationship?
Because love isn’t just shared meals and conversations it’s also physical presence, desire, and emotional bonding.
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Take a 10-min AI interview to qualify for numerous real jobs auto-matched to your profile 🔑I guess that just tends to happen when you're married or are in long term relationships. You need to find healthy ways to make sex fun again and it's not always going to happen as often as it did during the beginning. Sex isn't a priority anymore because it's understood that there's other ways of showing love at that level. However, I will say that if you're someone with a high sex drive and you feel unfulfilled you should speak with your partner instead of posting here, not everyone (your partner) feels the same way as you.
Experience of sex is fundamentally and biologically different for men and women. On top of it women add drama and use it as a carrot & stick game. While men act nice with drama when they choose to, they don't like that game going for long; and finally give up.
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I'm just a single youngster, but this is very easy to guess or understand. He is just tired bro, work can be extremely draining nowadays. He also probably has different ideas about relationships where sex doesn't play a huge role, or doesn't see you as a sex doll (that's a bad way to put the point but idk how to put it, but ykwim), or maybe isn't even thinking or finding courage to initiate. You should initiate it somewhat regularly to get him into action I think.
Also, women tend to remember small things which men will never even bother to notice, let alone remember. Don't be so hard on him. I'm not saying men don't remember small things or forget things easily or have less attention to detail, it's just that women tend to remember some useless nitpicky things which doesn't matter.
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How long has it been since you guys married?
If you've that sex drive just be completely open tell me that you want to have sex and you're feeling unsatisfied without it. Be brutally honest, it's saves your marriage
Beyond a certain age sex is optional. It's not a fundamental part of connection, closeness, and a healthy relationship.
There's more to life than sex, and looking beyond it is absolutely normal. We need to stop putting sex on a pedestal, and treat it like just a normal part of life.
It's cultural. Couples still have sex beyond the age of 60 in culture that doesn't make it a taboo.
Discussion and asking uncomfortable questions might help. Just expecting something without saying just adds to the problem. Be it anything.
You might not feel desirable to him physically or emotionally
Men can say the same thing about women lol 😆, I heard some of my older friends saying this that their wives are no longer interest in that