It's lonely, Ain't it?

@Yui sorry to hear this man. Bro Rab nu yaad kr sb vdeeya hojega. Bro why don't you DM ME, let's call... I also like to talk a lot.. And share about day.. (I am straight btw so don't take it other way)

there are certain skills like socialising and talking to people and ( you didn’t about parents so not saying that part but try opening up to parents)

… so you 1st thing is you are blaming those skills with your looks.

2nd thing is you are completely ignoring the statistics that no one calls you OR you not getting any messages, bro/bhai I have many many friends, many are close but even I will get less messages, in-fact in most close friends group I’m the only one who will message and break the silence and initiate.
So the point i’m telling is people with work and family commitments will call you less and you are bound to become lonely, this experience is almost with everyone.

3rd , it fine yaar , its hard skill honestly to maintain a friend, I have started to loose many close friends and the circle is shortening year by year. But one thing is you will find a person with whom you will spend few months, he will be your good friend in that time period and then suddenly you will never talk to him , try bonding with such people and try to make someone your good and then close friends over the years.

Dude get hold of yourself...

Find a hobby club. Go to billiards and snooker clubs. Start playing with them. Talks will happen.

Find nearby sports club and take classes for tennis or badminton. You will find partners to play and talk.

Find anything like that. When you are good at something , people will come and talk. Make yourself good at something.

Master a game or life skill ( not technology). Then see the difference. Matter of few months only.

Read astrology if it raises interest. Learn palmistry. Everyone will give their hand to you to read.
Imagine that.

I have all above (billiards, tennis, swimming, astrology , palmistry) successfully in last 15-20 years and made friends along the way. Friends will come and go but some new connection will be there every week or month with whom you can spend time. And one of them may stay for long term.

to be frank, I am in a similar state. Work, sleep, work, gym, read, study, music, repeat. I used to talk with people, but these days I don't find enough time, nor enough energy to socialize. This might sound like a very philosophical message but the truth is, at the end of the day everyone is alone. People who talk and interact with you see a version of you that fits their interest. And nobody can truly fulfill you as a person, because a different mind and a different person will always have issues in understanding your own self. So brother, here is what I find peaceful. Make peace with yourself, until you are completely satiated with your very own company, your very self you won't find peace. Socialize, read, meet with people (meetup is really good for that), Interact. Maybe read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and try to see that at the end of the day, the true independence comes from relying on ourselves.

Hilaya kro

Fun observation: 90% grapeviners are really empathetic and supportive while the other 10% assholes are bothered by their own issues and love to spread hatred.

Focus on the good ones and nurture those connections.

Firstly accept yourself that you are beautiful and handsome..if you will not accept the way you are and provide yourself self love then how can you think anyone else gonna love you.. everything start from self ..start loving caring and appreciating yourself. And it is very good to be own rather than cheated or being plotted by someone. Accept your handsome male, appreciate your work and keep motivating yourself..follow up self love.it is not easy initially but it is working method I do personally and I have results also . At right time right person will come to you so before that love yourself and never think about marne n all this life is so precious ,you are gifted by sum of many things which majority people are praying for.. Thanks to God for this life ..

Okay this is really sad, honestly I'm going through the same thing. At the end of the day bro, everyone wants a companion with whom they can share everything. It's normal human needs. I could tell you, it will get better or you'll find someone. But something I've learnt is, just start accepting that you may be alone most of the time, and start to honestly enjoy it. I could say, go out to some treks, community things, where you could meet new people talk. It will atleast for the time being let you off these ruminations, you are going through. Maybe one day In this process you'll meet someone with whom you can share everything too. Good luck!

If you need to talk contact me