It seems like I am a casteist. Roast me. I deserve it
I thought i am above these caste based thinking.
So i was recently talking to this girl, i liked her vibe. I thought who cares about her caste. If i like her then caste would not be an issue for me. This was before i knew her caste.
Today she asked my my caste and I told her and she told me hers. She is from SC caste.
And that felt like a stab in me. I honestly though i have grown above this.
But i feel soo ashamed for myself.
Man, i feel like i am such a horrible person right now
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It's seems to be true that casteism is ingrained in our blood. Even if we deny it, but deep down its there. It feels like a curse
I am such a hypocrite. I feel like vomiting.
I thought I am falling in love and csste would not come between us.
But this and that too I am feeling this.
I feel like vomiting
Not "our blood". Yours, for sure. I have dated girls from a few different castes and religions.
So you are clear you want to stop your fairy tale with her since you found her caste?
Looking at your responses here I feel you need some more time to make up your mind for this question! Dont get roasted just to take the decision to leave her
I am thinking this through. I am just concerned what my family might say. Will there be struggle? Idk.
So I am taking some time to think this through.
I am like 90% sure my parents wont be that mad because I like to make my own decisions.
But that 10% scares me.
Look bro, you are bad for having a mentality like that. No amount of regret will cancel that. But to be fair to you, it's not your fault you're like this. At least you realise that you are wrong and regret this. That puts you leagues above most people in this country. What we were inculcated with was not in our control. What opinions we develop in time is partly in our control and the opinions you developed is telling you the right thing. So you got the part that is under your control right.
I think it was this that i felt. Or a mixture of both. I don't even know right now. I will sleep it off I guess.
The realisation in itself is a first step. The stigma of society is so engraved within us that unknowingly we allow the prejudice.
Damn... Even I'm a bit twisted mate. Although a bit opposite way... I like the ppl who're oppressed and suffered.. and helpless... cause they're humble and know the realities of life... 😔🤞🏼. We both are twisted.. but even we do have a place in this world.
I think I might have misjudged myself. I have replied to your comment. Tbh it was so sudden that I misjudged what I felt
Caste based mentality is going down generation by generation automatically. Just think about you all whose parents are forbidding you from making friends from lower caste(which sounds strange though. I never faced such restrictions).
I am 100 percent sure you won't do the same to your kids . They in turn won't do to theirs.
it is ingrained in us since our childhood. All this shit comes up of it were to lead to marriage. Ochestraisation happens , girl understandably gets upset about it soecially since she to is educated now She takes it out on her only source to vent fustration , her man so practically speaking avoidable unless you migrated to find other country like US