Is this normal coworker behavior?
I’ve developed feelings for a coworker over the past few months and thought things were mutual, but now I'm unsure. We talk all day at work, text and message on Instagram after hours, and even on weekends. He bought me a wallet I’ve been eyeing to celebrate my promotion and brings me candy often.
He walks me to my car, even though he parks far away, holds doors for me, and once opened the passenger door when we carpooled.
Despite all this, he refers to me as his "favorite colleague" and sends coworker memes. I’m confused - does he see me as more than a coworker? I’m hesitant to ask directly since we work together.😅
Sounds normal to me😅
This is not at all normal. It's the first time I am seeing a lady feeling this for a man. Everytime it is the opposite.
Norhing is normal
You're lady POSH not applicable to you go ahead.... 😂
I have been down this stage. You are probably his favourite person at present. But he is not sure how to take this forward or should he take this forward.
Eventually, you will move to different organisations and you will lose touch.
I have been very close to two female colleagues in the past , but now haven't talked in years beside birthday wishes or congratulatory wishes if we see something worthy of that in status.
If you like him , take the initiative now. If you don't,high chances are you will lose the person anyways. No guy gets mad if he gets female attention.
https://youtu.be/3P52PJtdtWs?si=GY_mdbDNFxQSFbd5
Send this and see his reaction
Office me ye sab bhi hota hai kya?
You work with Info edge? Something similar Happened to me when I was working back in 2018.
This is not normal behaviour. He definitely has something for you. You can check that via various ways.
You give him hints. If he stop doing nice stuff get hint and stay away.
