Is this Adulting?

I have become the friend, I complained about 6 months ago!!

Not checking upon freinds regularly Forgetting Bdays Being updated just by status

Focusing on selective friends only, taking a friend who genuinely cares about me and is kindest of all for granted.

What have I become?

Long lived to see myself as villian?

Why do we tend to that?

Take people who care about you for granted, looking for validations.

Keeping expectations from people who we think are above us, who frankly don't prioritize us in thier lives!