FluffyMuffin

Is the matrimonial search basically a second job now?

Is it just me, or is it impossible to find someone who just wants a peaceful, spiritual, vegetarian life?

Honestly, I’m exhausted. I’ve been on the matrimonial hunt for 6 months, and a close friend has been at it for over a year. We aren't asking for the world, just a vegetarian partner who values spirituality and wants a peaceful life. I couldn't care less about career titles. I just want someone to share a quiet, meaningful life with. But somehow, finding that feels like looking for a needle in a digital haystack. Does anyone else feel like these platforms are just designed to keep us scrolling instead of actually connecting?

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PeppyQuokka

Stealth4h

I think there are very few vegetarian people nowadays, and that's why you call it a needle

FluffyMuffin

Qualcomm3h

Yes i agree 😁

GigglyCoconut

EY5h

If you’re both looking for the same things in a partner, why not give it a shot together? You already have the advantage of knowing each other.

FluffyMuffin

Qualcomm4h

😂, We are not gay, unfortunately.

CosmicNarwhal

Wells Fargo4h

First and foremost quality you need before you enter a marriage is patience. 6 months is too short.. give it more time atleast 2 years before you lose patience. Don't compromise on your standards. I am saying this after I found mine after 7 long years of search, with similar requirements as yours.

FluffyMuffin

Qualcomm3h

Hats off to you brother!

SwirlySushi

Infosys4h

Bro marriage is a gamble these days. You either hit or miss. Good luck 👍

FluffyMuffin

Qualcomm3h

Bro getting a job was easy for me

FluffyNugget

Howden1h

It's quite difficult, facing the same issue here :(

I feel girls have a lot of expectations now a days since they are financially independent. They want a guy to have own house, own car, 30LPA minimum, good humor, etc etc, the grocery list is never ending

FluffyMuffin

Qualcomm15m

SwirlyDumpling

PayU3h

I don’t understand the fascination with food habit tbh

FluffyMuffin

Qualcomm3h

It's more of a lifestyle and choice.

GigglyKoala

Stealth3h

I'm vegetarian and spiritual. DM 😂

FluffyMuffin

Qualcomm3h

but are you female though? 😂🤣

PrancingBagel

Freelancer10m

6 months is very short time. This is a long process and take years, but be careful don't be in a hurry. Don't marry if you are not sure even 1 % real life is way different than reel life.