WobblyJellybean
WobblyJellybean
13mo

Is not having a female best friend my red flag in dating?

So I have recently seen in reddit a post, where many commenters pointed out that "a guy not having any female friends is already a red flag" and shouldn't date him". I was so fcckin disgusted and shocked as to how this is possible.

See, I am already an introvert, and with most of the people around in the total of 4 yrs (I am currently a final year btech student) most of my batchmates know me by my name and so do I also know most of them. However, with none of them do I have this so-called friendship.

Note that I am talking about "FRIENDSHIP IN GENERAL", so you can see that I have very few friends even in total, which (for obvious reasons) are males. I can call only them the ACTUAL FRIENDS (which are 2-3 in number I would say) with whom I talk to almost daily and share almost everything, even sharing family related things.

Now, I do believe I am not the only one like this, there would be many as introverted (or even more than) as me. And I also don't feel I have any kind of so-called communication gap with most of the people (I know it cuz I fcckin cracked GS in the brinkest time of Economy and job market). And I believe there would be numerous others like me like that.

So just, tell me, how can I illogically be tagged as "red flag" when I just chose not to have too many friends (and definitely not the female ones)?

13mo ago
No comments yet

You're early. There are no comments yet.

Be the first to comment.

Discover more
Curated from across