SwirlyPickle
SwirlyPickle

Is it still worth it to get married in 2025 after hearing so many cases of divorce and su*cide because of unimaginable Alimony & torture

Few examples like "Atul Subhash", "Puneet Khurrana", "Manav Sharma"

Others(kindly use comment section)
Yes, Its still Worth it
Nope, Its Risky
Love marriage is safer option
Arranged marriage is safer option
will Govt bring reforms in laws?
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WobblyNugget
WobblyNugget

Kuch bhi puchte hai log…. Tu toh mat he kr

SwirlyPickle
SwirlyPickle
TCS3mo

Yeah got "assets and life" to protect, thanks for the comment 🙏

ZippySushi
ZippySushi

If women asked this question basis all the abuse they’ve had to endure and still endure - You & I wouldn’t be here. Life mein certainty kisi cheez ki nai hai - but having a mindset like this won’t get you anywhere. Communicate with your partner, get to know them, talk about future and finances and aspirations and navigating tough times together - it should help you understand what you’re getting into. Marry only when you feel sure - love or arranged. Stop falling for looks and dahej. Look for the traits and values and morals of the person. You cannot generalise a whole gender based on few examples- because if women did thus to us- we will be extinct!

ZestyWalrus
ZestyWalrus
TCS3mo

Bhai tcs ki salary mei toh alimony bhi ni mangegi wife lol

SwirlyPickle
SwirlyPickle
TCS3mo

"Manav Sharma" was from TCS, and moreover alimony isn't only calculated on income ,they take income tax returns of last 3 years
Just go to family court once, you will understand how it is

QuirkyQuokka
QuirkyQuokka

Saurabh from Meerut UP was cut into pieces and put into a drum, then cement was poured into it. He died brutal end in hands of wife and her gym trainer paramour. Husbands are getting deleted everyday. Extremely dangerous situation with all blindly laws biased towards women.

SwirlyPickle
SwirlyPickle
TCS3mo

Thanks for contributing
This poll was intended for this reason alone 😔
That if you are going to gambles 🎰 with your life
Better know the risks associated

SnoozyCupcake
SnoozyCupcake
TCS3mo

U didn't mention LiveIn

SwirlyPickle
SwirlyPickle
TCS3mo

You mean livein in good or bad way? As I have seen cases in court where people are asking for maintenance 🙄 LiveIn and court upheld that they are "eligible for maintainance"

BouncyBagel
BouncyBagel

Date like minded people. It takes time to understand each other and develop a strong connection. If you find your person, all this won't matter. Matrimony and arranged marriage structures have made it transactional, where all this has started popping up. Partnership is about sharing your life with someone you trust, value and respect. That only comes when you try and know the person before you commit to something like marriage.

SwirlyPickle
SwirlyPickle
TCS3mo

Good advice! Thanks for stopping by and commenting
I hope it helps me and others here

FluffyPancake
FluffyPancake
TCS3mo

@CraftySchool

Marriage in 2025 is like installing a high-stakes software update—it promises love and companionship, but the fine print includes "bug fixes" like alimony clauses, emotional patch updates, and the occasional system crash (a.k.a. divorce courts). You start with a free trial (dating), but once you commit, there’s no easy uninstall option—just expensive exit fees! And if things go south, you might end up paying lifetime EMI (alimony) for an experience you no longer use. So is it still worth it? Well, love is beautiful, but so is financial stability—choose wisely!

BouncyPretzel
BouncyPretzel
TCS2mo

It is honestly a bit funny that due to some handful of cases against men, we are now afraid of marriage. Guys, we are doing this to women since ages. Wo mana karne lagtin to aaj humari existence bhi na hoti. Not saying anything about my brother's dilemma here but I think it is time we men take accountability of our actions and try to make a better world for our queens and princesses.

MagicalNarwhal
MagicalNarwhal

Social media will always highlight the extreme cases. Things are not as bad as portrayed by social media. At the end of the idea you only need one girl. Take your time to understand her. There are good girls.

At the risk of offending people - flashy food at restaurants that looks delicious brings lot of health issues.
Homely food is boring, tastes bland, doesn't add any "excitement" to your life. But that is the healthy option that you should be aiming for

GigglyBagel
GigglyBagel

Honestly speaking, try to find common ground with women first and then see if anything clicks. Needless to say, do find time to put in the work for self-improvement every day. Until you feel you're ready, don't commit to anything.

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