PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Is it ok to want a wife who will work + earn the money while I can do household chores?

I dont want to work, dont get the necessary passion that others share for their jobs

Fine with my wife working while i take care of other things

Is this wrong ? What are your views ?

Would i find someone who would be okay doing this ?

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GoofyBurrito
GoofyBurrito

The eternal primal urge to submit to a 80 LPA baddie 😩🤌✨

Imagine just having to stay home and cook and clean and not care about any financial responsibility. And women don't want that and want to go out to work.....

SleepyUnicorn
SleepyUnicorn

Anyone who's working is a baddie! Facing the unfair world is the challenge according to your statement here. Contrary to your opinion, earning just enough to cope up with world and make ends meet makes the struggle harder, and whoever persists despite this is a bigger baddie than anyone! (My 2 cents to make everyone actually be proud of themselves irrespective of 0.8lpa, 8lpa or 80lpa) p.s. I'm a firm believer in financial independence of each individual

ZestyPotato
ZestyPotato

I believe nothing wrong with that. But very hard to find the one

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Let me know if you find someone

CosmicNugget
CosmicNugget

As a married working woman I think it's fine to expect a working woman who cooks as long as you take care of other works completely and not forcing her to cook when she is really busy.

I focus more on work, I cook too but the rest of the household work is handled by my husband. We don't follow it as a rule if he sees me busy working he would cook. When I see him busy I clean. Marriage life is all about balancing and supporting each other. It's not about 50/50.

Just curious on why can't you cook? Cooking is the basic skill which needs to be learnt by everyone irrespective of gender.

SnoozyPancake
SnoozyPancake

He never said he can’t cook. He wants opinion on being a stay-home husband

SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka

Also try becoming pregnant and give birth . That would make you feel less guilty . Cooking and cleaning aren’t big things . Your wife may possibly get a maid and do the rest on weekends ; she’s not gonna be satisfied with your level of tidiness

DizzyDumpling
DizzyDumpling

🔥

PerkySushi
PerkySushi

🔥

PrancingNarwhal
PrancingNarwhal

I mean that's the dream 🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Not for many

CosmicUnicorn
CosmicUnicorn

I was a house husband for a year! It’s good.. nothing to worry.. if your wife is earning better then you can take rest sitting at home

JumpyMuffin
JumpyMuffin

what made you go back at the job?

CosmicUnicorn
CosmicUnicorn

Boredom! Sitting inside home I was bored to death honestly

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

It may be difficult but certainly not impossible.

Keep trying, you will find someone for sure.

However you have to be relaxed with other criteria like age, region, caste, religion etc.

PeppyMochi
PeppyMochi

As a woman of that description, I am okay with my husband doing the household stuff .

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Lfg

QuirkyNarwhal
QuirkyNarwhal

i have a deja vu moment now i saw this question on reddit yesterday

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Yes same, i wanted to ask here hence

FuzzyMochi
FuzzyMochi

@Sweetcoin sahi khel raha hai bhai apna😄

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