GroovyNoodle
GroovyNoodle

Is it ok to have no workplace friends

Yes, but actually no
Yes
Absolutely not !
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ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
Hinge23mo

I have none. Across three companies that I have worked in, none. I work with 9-5, shut out mindset. I'm not available after paid work hours.
Also I just don't know what to talk other than work, yes/no/okay.

I agree, things would have been easier especially in job searches but well that's how it is

GroovyNoodle
GroovyNoodle

Have your fetl some negative repercussions on your mental health due of this?

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
Hinge23mo

Nah. I'm very detached in such cases. But yes social media followers don't increase, only repercussion 😭

FloatingRaccoon
FloatingRaccoon
Oracle23mo

At least try to make friendship with genuine people in the office or people who are on good terms with you. In the future, they might help you.

QuirkyNarwhal
QuirkyNarwhal

If working for more than a year in a company, one should make efforts to make friends. It will succeed only with like minded people and cannot be forced. You will learn about different cultures as people in office will not be a homogeneous group. Even after leaving company, you can always be in touch.

Irrespective of like minded or not, good friends or not, having good contacts is necessary especially after 10+ years experience as job switching is easier with networking and referrals.

SparklyPickle
SparklyPickle

At the end of the day, people in your office are also just that, people. You are likely to run into some you'd connect with, and then some you'd absolutely despise. I've formed a few genuine friendships that have outlasted my stay at that org. It gets easier if you have people from a similar education background / age etc.

WigglyCupcake
WigglyCupcake

Be open to becoming friends, don’t be deliberate in declining invites, or rejecting advances for friendship. Also, don’t force friendships. Be extremely kind to new joiners.

Also be very curious and ask a lot of questions instead of assuming/holding back.

I’ve done all of these and I find it impossible not to have friends at work.

ZestyWaffle
ZestyWaffle

I usually tell my team members. You are not here to make friends. You are here to deliver on your KPI's, if it requires you to call out BS then call it out. You can be friends but not at the cost of your work and people will respect you for it. I am personally friendly with a few colleagues and meet them sometimes outside work but that's it. I usually keep in touch with people who intellectually stimulate me.

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