GoofyUnicorn
GoofyUnicorn
23h

Is having a crush at work common?

#36M, happily married with a child, and I’ve always been loyal to my wife. I’ve never had thoughts about another woman before. But recently, I’ve started developing a feeling toward a colleague (she’s married as well) whom I work closely with. I feel a positive energy whenever she’s around. We’ve never had any personal conversations beyond work.

I’m not sure what to call this feeling, but her presence seems to make my work life more productive. Is this kind of feeling common?

23h ago
DerpyBurrito
DerpyBurrito

Uncle please 🙏

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

go for it, life is too small to only think about all this

FloatingDumpling
FloatingDumpling
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FuzzyBiscuit
FuzzyBiscuit

I'm blocking myself from getting close to female colleagues for my imaginary wife.. and here we are.. not giving worth for the real one.

TwirlyRaccoon
TwirlyRaccoon

You da real loyal

WobblyBagel
WobblyBagel

Imagine ur wife having same kind of feeling with another men, does it feel good or acceptable for you?

GroovyNugget
GroovyNugget

"Happily Married" "With a child" "Always been loyal" None of these tags justify what you just asked. This is lack of self control and lack of maturity.

WigglyMochi
WigglyMochi

Rather lack of maturity more suitable

BouncySushi
BouncySushi

Ah! So the story of corporate affairs of married couples is true....

Be Jethalal of TMKOC...

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

You can call this feeling as "Padi lakdi ged mei lena

If both were unmarried, I would have backed off and wouldn't say any

CosmicBagel
CosmicBagel

At your age i don’t know it’s common or what. But definitely not good/right for your life.

SleepyBurrito
SleepyBurrito

Enjoy the crush, enjoy the friendship. Remember boundaries. Remember what's important to you.

SwirlyPancake
SwirlyPancake

Damn. If she is good looking then just change her face in your imagination once and now think if that feeling remains the same or not.

It is just an attraction instance. Nothing else.

Stay happy and let her live happy even for the 0.00000001% ulta fulta thought.

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