SillyDonut
SillyDonut

Is finding a match in Bangalore that difficult?

Iโ€™m simple guy, working in IT in Bangalore, non-vegetarian, decent job, low drama life.

Only catch: I live with my dad and plan to continue doing so.

Been trying matrimony/dating apps but the moment this comes up, the match disappears faster than a production bug.

Is living with parents really such a deal breaker these days? ๐Ÿ™‚

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SqueakyCupcake
SqueakyCupcake

Be truthful, but open to live independently if situations come (which sometimes comes).

People who rejected you after knowing this are saving you from the future mess up.

FuzzyMarshmallow
FuzzyMarshmallow

this

SillyDonut
SillyDonut

Yess, I think the samee :)

SparklyHamster
SparklyHamster

you're not being rejected for loving your dad. you're hitting the great bangalore mismatch: the desire for traditional family support colliding with the fierce need for post-pg independence. for many women here, building their own life meant getting their own space, and they aren't willing to give that up. this isn't about your character, it's about conflicting blueprints for what a new home looks like.

GoofyNugget
GoofyNugget

Losing a match is easy in Bangalore ๐Ÿ™‚

MagicalPenguin
MagicalPenguin

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

WobblyWalrus
WobblyWalrus

Live with your parents. If not you, who will take care of them when they grow old? And youโ€™ll also find a girl who is okay with staying together with the family. Chill

SillyDonut
SillyDonut

Thatโ€™s what Iโ€™m trying to do. Thank you :)

PerkyNugget
PerkyNugget
SAP6d

I also live with my parents, but was lucky to find the love of my life who is perfectly fine living with my parents. It will take time but you will eventually find someone.

SillyDonut
SillyDonut

I hope the same.

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