DerpyTaco
DerpyTaco

If your girlfriend went completely silent after being taken for granted - no drama, no confrontation, just silence - how would you feel?

Say you’ve been in a serious relationship with a woman who genuinely cared about you, stood by you through your highs and lows, and was emotionally available even when you weren’t always consistent. Over time, you took her presence for granted, maybe unintentionally. She expressed her feelings a few times, but eventually, without any drama, she just… went silent.

No arguments. No last words. Just silence.

What would you do?

Move on silently, assuming she’s done?
Reach out casually, testing the waters?
Reflect and actually step up for her
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SleepyHamster
SleepyHamster

have a conversation with her, but don't give her false hopes, try to put in actual efforts, and if you can't, then let her have her peace and don't look back

SquishyPancake
SquishyPancake
PWC22d

If she is on silent mode then she is learning to live without you. If you really love her better talk and sort out. Make efforts man don't take a girl for granted. You will regret it life long if it's genuine love

DerpyTaco
DerpyTaco

What if she has changed and doesn't respond like she used to before?

SquishyBurrito
SquishyBurrito

it is soo soothing as her mouth is finally shut , but then she moves on

SillyPenguin
SillyPenguin

I agree the silence is good, but how long can you stay afloat without her is a thing to consider?

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

You fucked up big time bro You already know what to do

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PrancingMuffin
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