I have also paid a very high tax and my father was in air force as well, but I would support our defence forces in this situation
We did nothing during 26/11 attacks - 170+innocent people lost their lives, it showed pakistan we are weak in action
Unless you retaliate and show a strong front, no matter what you do you will be attacked again as well
Imagine if someone from your family went to pehelgam and they were no more, imagine the emotions you would feel, it boils my blood looking at how our fellow country men were killed. I have heard so many stories from army personal at the border, how there used to be protest at lal Chowk, they used to buther cows wrapped in Indian flag and say what can you do to the army, they had to cover ohm tattos in kashmir if you are an army personal, all that has changed after 2014.