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BubblyBanana
BubblyBanana
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I want to move out.

I am from a conservative family, and during my first long-distance, my mother had extreme problems with her. We broke up recently, and my mother has not changed. She still stalks our socials and thinks I am talking to or meeting her as if it is a sin to do that. I came home from a business trip yesterday, and I want to go out back again to escape from this.

I cannot spend my late 20s like this anymore. I am a freelancer, so I do not have an excuse to move out, but living like this is suffocating.

Any advice?

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SparklyLlama
SparklyLlama
Zepto11mo

bachha hai kya, bol de jaa raha hoon aur chale jaa. Zindagi bhar parents ke drame kp cater karega to jiyega kab

DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle
EY11mo

The advices people are giving here.
Do you even think before speaking?

This is about parents and home we are talking about. The one you'll come back when the world turns back on you

DizzyMarshmallow
DizzyMarshmallow
Booking.com11mo

Didn't know when did this become "us against them" with parents. The comments section looks like a bunch of privileged kids who've never really known pain.

DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle
EY11mo

Exactly

GoofyPotato
GoofyPotato
Tide11mo

I think you might want to explore how to set boundaries

PerkyBagel
PerkyBagel
Stealth11mo

Get up and walk out.
Come back when you want. If they donā€™t open the door, move out.

PrancingBoba
PrancingBoba
Stealth11mo

Time to move out of this home. You are better off elsewhere. It hurts but Indian homes and youngsters are always at crossfires however much you try

All the best to a new life šŸ˜ŠšŸ‘šŸ»

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel
Stealth11mo

Don't know the exact field which you are working in, but get a job temporarily and/or move to another city saying it has better growth for you as a freelancer.

For Example, If it is something related to art then you can go with Mumbai.

ZestyPenguin
ZestyPenguin
Electronic Arts11mo

Moving out in 20s is the best thing you can do for your mental health. If you have a remote job, you can totally move to bangalore or something and chill

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
ServiceNow11mo

Honesty is the best policy.

DancingKoala
DancingKoala
Stealth11mo

If you can't stand up for yourself, nobody can do that for you.

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka
Stealth11mo

Your parents can be wrong in their decisions, but never doubt their intent

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